This morn she tried to create every argument she could but got no reaction from me. Very frustrating for her. She really wanted to fight. I simply asked her how her weekend went and was going to leave it at that but she went off. I am now convinced she is hurting a lot worse then I am.
I know I should clean the house and do things for me! I should do do everything for me. I told her I was preparing for the day when I will have to do this for yourself. That really rattles them.
Weekend with the kids was great. Very calm and quiet. My S12 scored a great head ball goal yesterday. I am a little worried about my S15. He keeps a lot of anger and things inside of him. I keep asking him if we can hang and talk and he says he is fine.
My W is very angry right now and she is getting no reaction from me. Detaching is very hard but I am almost there. All of this is very hard. Maybe a change in the weather will help.
Mood swings Galore. At lunch she was very pleasant telling me about her weekend. In the back of my mind I think the OM was there but I bet he was not. Who knows?
Sounds like a rough sitch. I can't believe how hard it must be trying to handle the swings in mood. I know that you're working hard to detach, but it must hurt and be really confusing too. Good for you for not getting hooked in to those invitations to clash. I'm glad you were able to have a small piece of relief and enjoyment in seeing your kids this weekend. Sounds like they are very special to you, particularly in going through this tough time.
Thanks Purr. No arguments for 24 hrs now. Feels good.
She is really starting to feel my detaching, GALing and PMA. I think it is really bothering her. She is in a solom mood when she is around me but very chipper and cocky around everyone else.
I wounder if she is talking to her L. I kinda hope so. How long can this go on?
I LOVE MY KIDS!!!!!! (Unfortunitly, I love her too)
Tree not a R talk i hope!! You just stated she is feeling your cganges. let her amke the first move on this. the solomness might be her self doubt. if you " cave in" she will not realise that your are detaching because she if causeing you pain. if she's starting fight what good will a R talk do but give her a ave to unleash
W just called to talk about an issue in the house (ants) and we discussed. I turned the conversation to "are you mad at me for something" because she has been very standofish. She snapped. I didn't say another word. Said she was "moving forward with things (S)", for the four hundreth time. Said "no more MC because they can't help us". "When I was GALing I did whatever the H I wanted to". "It was very uncomfortable in the house for her and the kids". Yada yada yada yada. Again, I didn't say one word, I very calmly said I had to go and that was the end of the conversation. I was not getting into a R talk.
She is getting nastier and nastier every minute. I think she is trying to get me to make a move to justify her anger.
