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Tyler ... pine trees everywhere and great lakes. Scenic. Pine smell. Slow pace life, low blood pressure, old oil money, and some old people.

Gave up a lake house there to have kids. Wonder if it is too late to trade back? Maybe on a time share basis even?

Happy Easter!!! God bless and watch over all that are traveling, or feeling holiday blues. Biting the head off a chocolate bunny always helps.


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Hwy Holly, I'm in Texas too!!! There are a lot of us here!!! We are fun bunch!!!


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July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

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Your right we are a fun bunch!!!!!!! Holly if you visit you may never want to leave!!! LOL Like they say......I wasn't born in Texas but I got here as soon as I could!

Happy Easter and have a wonderful time on vacation.

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Hey Holly,


How was your trip? Fill us in.

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not good. Got the bomb again. I am dealing with it and finding the strenght that God gave me, to recover my stand. It is not hopeless at all, but right now I am taking care of myself,and allowing God to comfort me. And lots of friends from here. \:\)

Give me time folks. I will get it together again.


TJ got scared. He is still in replay, and I believe near a crash. He is going to see a counselor, I think he has a clue that he is a broken man. We will see.

I am OK.


Bomb 1/06
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OW looks like bad history. Over.
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{{{{Holly}}}}

I am truly shocked to read this. Tj seemed so clear on what he wanted.

You've been so patient.

Nothing is every hopeless unless you give up hoping.


The convertible and cooler are ready when you are.

Luv ya!!

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(((Holly)))),

Sorry for the setback, but you sound very grounded. HIs willingness to go to C is terrific.

Originally Posted By: Jeanette1120
Nothing is every hopeless unless you give up hoping.


The convertible and cooler are ready when you are.



Sparkles said it so well I thought it was worth repeating.

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I chose to believe that this is the down part of the rollercoaster ride. I have checked in with professionals,and others that I trust, and I am not being foolhardy in my hopefulness.


I chose.


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Quote:
I am not being foolhardy in my hopefulness


You never have been.

If TJ is seeing that perhaps something is wrong with him and he is seeking counseling......that says alot Holly.

He's already shown he does want to have a marriage with you. Now he is showing he wants to have a wonderful marriage with you.

And you continue to show him your strength, even when you feel like your weakening inside your strength shows on the outside.


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Holly,

We are all here for you. You can call me anytime.

Hang in there.

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