Searching for the truth..for me 3

[phbear316]

Well since I was asked to start a new thread

SG would you mind copying my old thread over to my new one

Your the best

Thank you

bear

[sgctxok]

bears last thread


I apologize.

I want you to know I pray for you daily.

[phbear316]

Ok, Sg, now i know i finally had that glass of wine tonight, it was quite a large glass, but not big enough i could swim in so I am a little confused, and tired

You apologize to me for what?????.....

SG, you or Jeanette did nothing to upset or offend me, lots of time i think I am the one who offends.

You were only trying to protect me by what you said about my mom. I was doing that to her today, telling her oh, it probably just a cyst, etc, etc.

I know in my heart the risks, i know the signs. Both her parents died of cancer, but she does not see that. One plus one does not add to two. She does not make the connection and I will not force her to.

I am welcome your opinion and you know that, sometimes I disagree, and sometime I agree, but it is your opinion and you are entitled to it.

So I will honor your apology

I also what you to know I thank god every day for all of you here.

I was thinking before I don't know what i would do without all of you especially today. I am 100% sure i would have broken down to my H and told him, and like you will tell me, not a good idea it will just put pressure on him, to care when he does not care.

So instead i came here, to wonderful friends who i know love me, and will be here with me thru thick and thin, good times and bad.

bear

[phbear316]

Oh hey I forgot to tell you guys, my boss and i were chatting today, and he is like I am so exhaused and i need a better job.

I just said ok, i have a perfect idea, and i will let you in on it.

I want to open a wine bar/laundromat.

My boss looked at me laughed, fell off the chair and said, you know that really is not a bad idea.

I'm like I know, people need to do laundry, and its boring and a pain in the neck, so why not enjoy a nice glass of wine while your socks dry.

My other boss who is next door chimes in and says, Do i have to bring my laundry in order to come into the wine bar. I am like heck no, there will be a dry cleaning service attached to it so you can drop off you shirts.

Someone else chimes in and is like, if you threw in some beer, i would be there. Sure why not. more fun, more wine, more beer.

I am telling you ladies we could be on to something.....

bear

[phbear316]

Morning All

I have a question, looking for your ideas about it.

Next tues 3/25 will be H & I's 14th anniversary.

Do I say anthing about it, say happy anniversary, just get a card and leave it for him, or do nothing.

I am thinking more of the latter of doing nothing. Since h does not want to be with me, I will bet you all anything he will go to therapy and then go out for the night to be with her. I find he will run away from things for he cannot face them. H should stand up and look in the mirror and really see what he is doing/has done. But he will not see for he is being selfish, and narsacistic (sp)

Also have not heard a word from mil, ok you have set the rules, I am only going to obey.

bear

[phbear316]

Morning All

I have a question, looking for your ideas about it.

Next tues 3/25 will be H & I's 14th anniversary.

Do I say anthing about it, say happy anniversary, just get a card and leave it for him, or do nothing.

I am thinking more of the latter of doing nothing. Since h does not want to be with me, I will bet you all anything he will go to therapy and then go out for the night to be with her. I find he will run away from things for he cannot face them. H should stand up and look in the mirror and really see what he is doing/has done. But he will not see for he is being selfish, and narsacistic (sp)

Also have not heard a word from mil, ok you have set the rules, I am only going to follow along.

bear

[phbear316]

Morning All

I have a question, looking for your ideas about it.

Next tues 3/25 will be H & I's 14th anniversary.

Do I say anthing about it, say happy anniversary, just get a card and leave it for him, or do nothing.

I am thinking more of the latter of doing nothing. Since h does not want to be with me, I will bet you all anything he will go to therapy and then go out for the night to be with her. I find he will run away from things for he cannot face them. H should stand up and look in the mirror and really see what he is doing/has done. But he will not see for he is being selfish, and narsacistic (sp)

Also have not heard a word from mil, ok you have set the rules, I am only going to follow along.

bear

[sgctxok]

Do nothing.

[sgctxok]

I had cancer myself in 2006. I know how scary that can be.


Re: Anniversary....do nothing. Act like you don't know what day it is (not about the day of the week, just the significance)


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[sgctxok]

What kind of sense of humor does your H have?