hey B, just checkin in. glad you are starting to see some light. We all know it's hard, but we all know that you can do this. We are all in this together.
Have a good evening
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
Enjoying the "baby's almost here!" party??? (much funner than that other party ).
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
Hello all. Today is okay. I'm having a little bit of a difficult time, it's my birthday. The big 4-0 and I haven't heard from H, at all. I suspect that I won't. Everyone keeps telling me not to let it ruin my day. But, how do you do that? I'm just trying to stay busy and look forward to spending time with my friends. But, what I really want is to spend time with my H. That's just not going to happen though. It just makes me sad. So, I'm trying not to have any expectations. But, how do you that? Just wanted to check in. I'll check in a little later, maybe. Hopefully, my mood will be better. The baby is one week away. I just need to focus on that.
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
At the risk of sounding like a Nike ad.. Just Do It. Make the decision that you're going to have a great day, then do what it takes to make it one!
What are you going to do that's fun today? Can you go out to a favorite restaurant, maybe check out a good comedy movie?? Treat yourself to getting a manicure, pedicure, and/or massage maybe?
What things do you like to do? What relaxes you? What do you have fun with? I honestly don't remember if you've ever shared any of that here.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
NikB you took the words right out of my mouth! Just do it!
blindsided I think you keep looking for some 'how to' manual on not having expectations and staying positive. NikB's right...you just make the decision and then take the appropriate actions.
I hope you found some fun things to keep your mind moving the right direction today!
Hey, I just thought of something!! You and Kendall will always have birthday's exactly one week apart! How cool is that? J~
M 35 H 29 M 4 yrs T 9 yrs D 3 S born 10/19/07 Bomb 09/10/07 Separated next day OW - broke up and H moved out 09/07/08 Status - still figuring this out
B - how was your birthday?? Did you make it a great day? I sure hope so.
Jenny - if any of us figures out that manual, we'll be very rich.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
Hello all - been exciting the last couple of days. My Birthday was nice. H called multiple times during the day to wish me a Happy Birthday. I didn't get to see him yesterday which made me a little sad last night. It's hard knowing he is with someone else on MY birthday. But, I managed. I did however have a ton of people who love me come over and cook me dinner and we had a very nice time. I lost my mucous plug yesterday and had some contractions both yesterday and today. I went in for monitoring today and my blood pressure was up. They told me if it didn't come down they were going to deliver her today. But, it came down. So, it's just getting close. I don't know if I'll make it until the 19th. We'll see.
M 5yrs 1st baby-girl born 6/18/08 Bomb: 10/13/07 OW - I was 6wks Prego H Moved in w/OW: 11/2/07 D Final 07/10 OW had his baby 3/17/09-so her Me, now - happier than I ever was with him
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