Kalni love, I'm glad to hear that you're still heading w/ that plan. I think it will be good for you and may force H to get off the fence and at least express SOMETHING to you.
I also agree w/ John that it is too early to throw in the towel. You'll know when that time comes for you, but I'd say it is a ways off as of yet.
FG, I don't expect anything to happen before this weekend the earliest. If he serves me with papers I will send you a message. If he comes back with a new ring, I will introduce him to DB forum and the "first WAH now LBS" forum...
Kalni, just popping in to see how you're doing. I'm thinking of you, wishing all the best. Hugs sweetie.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
Hey Kalni, Just my two penneth, but you sound like your panicking? You sound like your getting wound up and "shutting off" to protect yourself, but if you were really done, or given up waiting, you wouldnt be wound up? I guess you are apprehensive about him returning and what he might say?
Is he back tommorow? Wishing you luck...it was the full moon tonight and mercury goes forwards, so I hope that at least some of the pressure eases, on him and on you. Thinking of you and your little treasures (Kal and Ni)
Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
I dont know why I am encouraging you to wait and wait and put up with all sorts (I bet your friends arent doing that!) I guess this site really gets to you and you want everyone to have a happy ending...
Ali xxx
Me:40! H:37 Together: 12yrs IDLY & left 11/07 ADs 03/08 OW 8/08 Reconciled 05/09 now married! my thread
