Retrouvaille here I come

[Dr LOve]

Update...

Today I did have a sharp down ride in my heart. I literally did get that sick feeling again. I E-mail W to find out about getting son a sitter. I did not know if she already had plans. Her response was
"That’s up to you to arrange. It’s either there or you’re Mothers. Wherever he goes, he’s going to be miserable."

I lost it. I felt like just calling home and saying “Forget it lets just file"
LUCKLY I had E MAIL addresses from Friends I met here. (Prier the unrealistic takeover/ rule change) that I could fall upon. Their responses helped me make it through the day.
W was not home when I got home so I called my sister and she said she should be able to watch son that weekend. I then talked to son. He really had no problem with going over to my sisters. (Later I told him I would get him a new DS game to take over with him. But Like I said he had no problem before I offered the game.
So all that is left is my dog. My mom will take care of that.
17 more days... I am Soooo far out of my comfort zone.
I am scared, nervous, worried, light hearted all at the same time.

Later Husband

[Sara]

Good work on finding a fun place for your son to go. I'm sure he is looking forward to something different. I have yet to meet the child older than 5 who is miserable for a weekend without his parents. Give me a break!

[Dr LOve]

My D just called and said she will watch my Dog....

It does not look like there will be much stopping us now.
It feels like im in a train with no engineer..barreling down the tracks I guess all I can do now is hold on...

H

[lodo]

Hey husband,

I've read your thread but haven't posted before. Just wanted to say hello and wish you luck with retro. I'm just south of you - probably looked at the same session you're going to but my W had already made up her mind.

I know you're nervous, but you should calm down. I'll watch your dog if D ends up not able to do so.

Anyway, all the best to you. lodo

PS - I can watch kids too. I used to be a guide so am pretty good at keeping them entertained. And I know what to do if they get a sucking chest wound! LOL - just meaning to say, there's always a way.

[Dr LOve]

Thanks lodo,

Sorry to hear your W did not give ya a chance to work on your M. It is never too late I am told. I am ready to give up. This is my last effort to reconnect with my wife.
From the 4 people that I have talked to here... 3 have had positive things happen from Retro.

I am doing better so far today. Thanks for the offer about watching my son or dog. My son will be fine with my sister, as for my dog? Well she is so fat even if I just left her in thy yard for two days it would probably do her good. But My D wants to watch her so the dog is taken care of. The ONLY fly in the ointment now is JURY DUTY... My w has to call in for jury duty... So far this week she has not had to come in. SO now I need to wait until Friday to see what happens there. Even then unless she gets called in for an OJ type trial it should not take more that a week.

Later
Husband

P.S I grew up in Terra Linda

[saffie]

Hi H

[Dr LOve]

Morning Beautiful how ya doing?
When are you going to accept me as a friend in Face book?

[JAK58]

[/quote]17 more days... I am Soooo far out of my comfort zone.
I am scared, nervous, worried, light hearted all at the same time.[quote]

Hi H,

These are such normal feelings for us when we are going through something like this. As iv'e been and others here Feel The Fear and do it anyway. You have nothing to loose and everything to gain.


Thinking of you today and every day.
Iv'e not been on the boards quite so much. Right now I feel that I don't have to much to offer in thwe way of support.

If you do horoscopes today can I have Sag, Cap and Aries Please.

JAK

[Dr LOve]

Pisces Horoscope (Feb 19 - Mar 20)
Don't worry if you are moodier than usual now, for this is typical when the Moon is back in your sign. Being aware of your feelings, however, also means that you don't have to respond unconsciously to whatever happens. You may not be able to alter external events, but you do have some control over your reactions. Even something as simple as taking a couple of deep breaths when you feel emotional is enough to improve your day.
Leo Horoscope (Jul 23 - Aug 22)
Your compassion for the underdog clashes today with your admiration of someone who can be a winner. But your idea of a winner may not be a traditional one. You know that outer success is overrated, along with fame and fortune. The person who comes out on top in your book is the kind and creative one who is willing to take a risk.

Aquarius Horoscope (Jan 20 - Feb 18)
Be careful with your money today, for you could become enamored with the fantasy of acquiring something that could change your image. But money can't buy happiness, whether you're hooked by the idea of purchasing new clothing, a piece of artwork or a tech toy. Instead of looking at material possessions as the source of satisfaction, turn your thoughts inward to consider what you could do, rather than what you could own.

. Sagittarius Horoscope (Nov 22 - Dec 21)
You may be living under a magic spell that makes you think everything is fine at home when it's really not. It's better to look at your world through a realistic lens today, for the haze of your ideals can cloud your normally good judgment. Luckily, clarity returns steadily throughout the day, so delay a big decision until later.

Capricorn Horoscope (Dec 22 - Jan 19)
Normally, you are quite adept at getting your ideas across, so it's not very comforting when your closest confidants don't understand you. They are paying attention and could probably repeat what you said nearly word for word, yet they are still missing your point. Don't give up. Keep cycling back around to the basics and you'll soon see the light bulbs over their heads turn on one by one.

Aries Horoscope (Mar 21 - Apr 19)
Giving up the fight sounds like a good idea, especially if you are tired of always having to be right. But it's not as easy as it sounds, because the consequences of letting go won't be worth the temporary peace you might experience. When you realize that your choice does not have to be all or nothing, then your day can quickly improve.


For me next month…….

July 2008
Relationships heat up this month as assertive Mars enters your 7th House of Partnerships on July 1. This planet’s presence in detail-oriented Virgo can attract as much criticism as passion, but don’t allow yourself to be bullied by aggressive people. Stating your needs clearly increases your chances for gaining cooperation in a peaceful fashion. Hope for love springs from the cozy Cancer New Moon in your 5th House of Romance on July 2. Your sensitivity can make you more appealing when you’re willing to show it. Communicative Mercury’s entry into your expressive 5th House on July 10 opens the door to intimate conversations. Loving Venus enters outgoing Leo on July 12, bringing more joy to your work. The Capricorn Full Moon on July 18 occurs in your 11th House of Groups and Friends, making it clear how much is expected of you as a member of a team.

Retro in JULY 11TH

[JAK58]

WOOOOOW H,

Your July Horoscope sounds erie but,good

JAK

Thanks