I am starting out today to accept the S, GAL and work on me. The 180 is part of it, but it is also about me selfishly wanting to think of what I WANT to do.
I just made a reservation to go camping July 11th - 13th. Yes, with just the dog for company. I grew up camping and was only able to get the WA H to go camping once in 21 years of M. This will be my time to sit beside the campfire and relax. I will definitely bring some Arbor Myst Blackberry Merlot and the fishing pole. The best part is I'm not going to tell the H I'm going and Alleghany State Park has absolutely no cell reception there, so I'll be as dark as dark can get. (I'll probably say I have plans - and leave it at that.)
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
I am starting out today to accept the S, GAL and work on me. The 180 is part of it, but it is also about me selfishly wanting to think of what I WANT to do.
I just made a reservation to go camping July 11th - 13th. Yes, with just the dog for company. I grew up camping and was only able to get the WA H to go camping once in 21 years of M. This will be my time to sit beside the campfire and relax. I will definitely bring some Arbor Myst Blackberry Merlot and the fishing pole. The best part is I'm not going to tell the H I'm going and Alleghany State Park has absolutely no cell reception there, so I'll be as dark as dark can get. (I'll probably say I have plans - and leave it at that.)
WTG i am planning similar things this weekend (going hiking etc,) only things is we have 2 dogs.. and i can't bring them for the hike
Very cool. I think that sounds like a great plan. Should be nice to have some peace and quiet. Fishing is a great time to just sit and reflect. I may go do that myself on Monday while H has the girls for their first overnight away.
Chris
__________ Me:39 H:39 D:8 D:4 M:9 (T 13) Bomb 4-5-08, H moved out 6-16-08, Reconciled and H moved back in 5-31-09 Still doing GREAT a year later!!!
My S is worried that his Mom might not know how to set up a tent or start a campfire. Funny! He wishes I would not go alone. I'm looking forward to it. Its funny how my head feels so much clearer with something to look forward to.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
My S is worried that his Mom might not know how to set up a tent or start a campfire. Funny! He wishes I would not go alone. I'm looking forward to it. Its funny how my head feels so much clearer with something to look forward to.
your not alone in GAl ing.. just remember that and good luck! Have Fun!!!
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
Make sure SOMEONE knows where you are - just in case. -That's the mom in me.
Oh yes, and have FUN!
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Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
The s will know the location and the number for the park, Mom. I'll also let my mother know.
((((ms ladybug)))
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
Take care dear. Sit up straight and eat your vegetables.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
I'll only eat the veggies if they go with the blackberry merlot!
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.
