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Oops H - I will go do that later. I haven't been on that recently!!!!! ;\)


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Not much time..

W informed me that she sold some of my stock and paid off my jeep. (at least now I know Iwill have a place to sleep).
AND those of you that have my Face book. CHeck out the Video of my trip....

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H,

How are you doing?


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Hey saffie,

I am doing Ok. How about you?
W has really been into her "class work" on her computer so I have not "bothered" her very much.
Every year we have a big 4th of July party. (I think we skipped last year don't remember with all this @rap going on. Anyway W said she only wants a few people this year. She does not want to be around allot of people right now. (Depressed?).
Today I get to go buy a new lawn mower to use at MIL house. That will give me some retail therapy.
Last two days I have been on a BIG project at work so time there has been flying by. I have next Friday off. (July 4th) and I am taking July 11th off and July 14th off. I figure the retro weekend... July 11th through 13th if things turn out well I may need Monday July14th to rest up from all that wild and crazy sex..


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(((H)))

Could be depression - or I'm sure she's anxious and has a lot on her mind with the Retro weekend coming up.

Have fun with the retail therapy and the new mower!

Love your optimism on taking July 14th off.


Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
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morning,

13 MORE DAYS.
I ALMOST had a set back today... My sister called and told me she could NOT watch my son.
SO I had to call my mom to see if she was available. Now my son loves his Grandmother dearly BUT... her house is not the most fun place to stay. I did have a talk with him and told him that mom and dad really needed to away that weekend and if there was anyway we could we would be taking him. He was GREAT. He said no problem he will be alright. (I could tell he was not really a happy camper about it)
But..... I REALLY need to do this.. I am usually a weak man when it comes to putting others before my needs. (Other wise I would not be in this sitch). BUT I do know these two days of not having allot of fun for my son could lead to a way better situation for the rest of his life....

Got ta go IT"S FRIDAY... Ever since Wife agreed to go to retro I no longer feel like the end of my marriage is nearing on hold but not ending yet. Like I have said in the past it was getting to the point that I was not feeling married anymore. I was having a good time going out and bar hopping. I was testing the waters and boy they felt nice. But since the Retro agreement I now feel guilty again about being a "married man" out on the town. BUT........It has been a while since I went out and I am NOT out of the woods yet so if I can get a few bucks together I just may go out tonight. Kind of like a "bachelor party" this will be the last Friday night before Retro that I will be able to go out as a "possible soon to be available guy"

Have a great weekend everyone...

Oh Ya NikB. GOT a GREAT DEAL on the lawn mower.....

Husband


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Hang in their, Dr. LOve. Don't let temptation at the bar scene cloud your good judgement. Glad you were able to get your son/mom hooked up for Retro.

((((((((((husband)))))))))))


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Hey, Doc,

Just passing along my best regards and thanking you for checking in on me.

Over in your old hunting/haunting grounds (Infidelity/Extramarital Affairs/Jealousy), we're so proud of you.

Keep on keepin' on.


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Hey Nocode,

I am far from out of the woods.Things have stalled since I left the other board. The 11th will be a jump start. I will know then if I can fix this "Car" or just go out and get a new one. I have been holding it togeather with hay wire and duct tape for so long/ I tried to find my post from last year. (durring our w/ annv.) when I made those frik@en snails....
This time last year i was looking for a annv gift.(even though I got none). That is not even a issue this year.

It is strange though that we are going to Retro the weekend Before our Annv.....
WHo know what will happen. I don't. but I do know SOMETHING is going to happen.

Later
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And you know what? Sometimes it better to know SOMETHING than nothing, so either way hopefully you will have closure.

I think you two will be fine.


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