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Originally Posted By: M from Tennessee
Kalni-sorry about the quote box's sweetie. My bad. Forgive me??

Update on today-up early, mowed the yard. Came in to clean up. Discover that my STBX has been documenting all my time away from home and the amount of time I spend with D. Games, I hate games.

Got cleaned up and went to the house. Took some pictures. Posted them in the alternate universe..if you know your way there then have fun. Finished painting the bathroom. Changed out some more electrical stuff. Hung some smoke detectors. Installed a new outdoor light on the front porch.

Left there and went to have the pictures made for my mom. They turned out great. Golf after work tomorrow..

Think I should just start typing out my itinerary for my STBX and copy her L in on it?? I'd hate for either to catch a hand cramp from writing all my absences down..

PMA is still really good..Gal'ing like there's no tomorrow.


Hey man...

What does W expect you to do, you are redoing the house as fast as you can so you can get moved out. You have sayed many times on here, that you feel bad that you don't have more time in a day
and that it kills ya not to have but 1/2 hr or 45 mins. to spend with D you are doing what you can. Let it roll off my friend.

Glad the pics turned out well for your Mom she will enjoy that.

Maybe today will be the day for that par score LOL

Brian


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What does W expect you to do, you are redoing the house as fast as you can so you can get moved out. You have sayed many times on here, that you feel bad that you don't have more time in a day
and that it kills ya not to have but 1/2 hr or 45 mins. to spend with D you are doing what you can. Let it roll off my friend.


I don't know. I don't really think it matters one way or another. The parenting plan was agreed to initialed and signed off on last mediation. I don't think it can be changed. Just goes to show they will complain no matter what.

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Mike,

Disregard my question from earlier today. My C gave me some good thoughts that I am going to roll with. You can see my thread about it if you wish.

Still gotta figure out how to crack this nut though. T - 40 days or so before the end of August and the end of my M.

Meeting with my L today and will take to heart what you and FG posted last Thurs/Fri.

Thanks again!

Chris


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Update today. Off work early to play golf. Ended up shooting 85. It was hot but the beer was cold. The guys I played with asked me about my sitch. I was finally able to talk to them on the golf course and not have it affect me. Did I tell you the beer was cold?? I got home in time to play and hold my D for about an hour and a half before bedtime.

Work tomorrow then over to the house. Have a busy week this week.
I have a fuel leak in my Trailblazer so I'll need to take off work to have it repaired on Wednesday. Rehearsal dinner for my son's wedding on Friday, then wedding on Saturday. I'm in it and so is D..I'll get pictures. Wednesday is my mom's B-day and Thursday is my Bro and SIL's anniversary.

Had some interaction with STBX tonight. Mostly about D. My SIL wants to give me some of her D's clothes for my new place. I inquired of my STBX about what size she though my D would be this fall and winter. I also asked my STBX if I needed to buy a potty for D for my place(there are two here) she said she wanted the one her mother bought for D and I said it made no difference to me a potty is a potty...(god give me strength, I don't ask for much just please give me strength to deal with the "stuff" that's said and done)

Brian if you see this, start a new thread..you're locked up.

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Sounds like a good day on the golf course, Mike.
I'll pray for God to give you that strength. Take care buddy.


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Mike, my buddy got close to your score when we played after work but we were on a 9 hole, LOL!

Glad to hear you had a good time.

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Mike...

Good for you on a good day, excuses here but an 85???

Come on bro you can do better than that LOL!!!

Sounds like you have hit a new level of detachemnt & acceptance to be able to talk about it somewhat with the guys. Glad the beer was cold helps on a hot day.

W is stressing over a potty???

I think they have those on Ebay....

I hope the leak isn't the fuel line, that's gonna get costly cause it is a one piece unit that runs from front to back if I remember right. Sorry!

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I hope the leak isn't the fuel line, that's gonna get costly cause it is a one piece unit that runs from front to back if I remember right. Sorry!


But...but....don't you have a friend in the business??????


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What do they feed you boys in Tennessee?
Originally Posted By: M from Tennessee
Finished painting the bathroom. Changed out some more electrical stuff. Hung some smoke detectors. Installed a new outdoor light on the front porch.
This is almost as exciting as Nikki Plumbersnake. Peace.


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85?!? 85?!?!

I did that once...in a round of mini-golf. Do post on a forum for golf tips too (handicapbusting.com)?


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