I want to be cherished. I want to be an equal partner. I don't think he can give me what I need on an emotional level. I can't continue to compromise my needs. I am too good for that and I have too much love to give. A man who deserves me will be very happy someday.
Truly, you are someone very special, and you will find the love you very well deserve. It will actually find you when you're not even looking.
It goes without saying. Ms. Imp, you are such and awesome person. Do you have any idea what a special person you are? You have touched so many people here on these boards. You will never know the impact of your kind words and cheer.
You never fail to bring a smile to my face and I am in awe of how far you have come. You are simply the QUEEN!
BTW...did you tell H what a complete DAFT he is for letting you go? (sorry...I love that expression.)
Corey
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
Hi ((((Girlie))), people who really need to be committed, don't think they do.
So if you think you do not, does that mean you should be?
Hm, in your case, probably, yes. (hey, you cheered me up slightly, so thanks)
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
No, because I don't know if I want to save it anymore. I want to be cherished. I want to be an equal partner. I don't think he can give me what I need on an emotional level. I can't continue to compromise my needs. I am too good for that and I have too much love to give. A man who deserves me will be very happy someday.
Girlie, please please print this off, laminate it & stick it in your wallet, where you will read it every single day. This is soooooooooo awesome to hear.
You TOTALLY deserve to be cherished, & have all the beautiful amazing love, that exists within you, returned ten fold.
Hugs.
p.s. I'm really glad you got to have that conversation with H. It sounds like it was really good healthy closure.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
How was the art class.. is this the day you have it?
Things are quiet. My brother-in-law and I met in the middle so his daughter could see the play. She and my daughter are like sisters. Tomorrow I'm going up with the kids to my sister-in-law's to celebrate my mother-in-law's b'day.
What are your plans for this weekend. Your positive attitude inspires me.
The play was great fun. Off to a BBQ to see a niece I haven't seen in 22 years due to divorce wars, the divorce was that ugly. She was four the last time I saw her.
Love your impnocity!
*hugs*
PS.. your friends are here in good times and in bad.
(hey, you cheered me up slightly, so thanks)