You know, GFI, you were asking about trusting someone again, and I was talking to someone today who had remarried (both were cheated on by their first spouses) and her H tells her where he is all the time and provides #s and is very transparent so she says she totally does trust her H now.
It sounds like your H is kind of more the secretive type (the whole locked box as an example) and my H is as well. So maybe look for less secretive, more transparent type people in future Rs? I know I've always told my H every detail and been transparent--b/c I've never had anything to hide and that's not the case for our H's I think. Karen
I am a bad girl. I would buy a lock just like his. And then I'd have a locksmith open the box and I'd put my lock on it. When he can't open it, I'd pretend I had no idea why his key didn't work.
I am a bad girl. I would buy a lock just like his. And then I'd have a locksmith open the box and I'd put my lock on it. When he can't open it, I'd pretend I had no idea why his key didn't work.
OMG Sara!
How funny you posted this now!
I was outside trying to open the shed, and had the wrong key. Looked exactly the same, but went to the lock on the trailer. I thought, HHHHMMMM wonder if Ms Imp could do that! LOL
SMW
M40/H36 T16/M14 4K B2/08 S4/08 current
Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
Hi ((((Feisty Ms Imp))))., I'd leave a bottle of lube & a note on the table. "For when you get horny... you have a hand don't you?"
I agree with Sara, get an identical lock, & switch it. That would be funny. I'd lay awake at night giggling about that one.
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
I am the same way, girl. I am so afraid all men are like this. I never thought my H could do what he has done over the last year, so who CAN I trust now?
DB is the only place that reminded me that there are great men still out there.
1. Go buy a new lock and cut that one off...it would be worth the price of admission to watch "Jerknosedickwad F*cktard" try and open the new lock.
2. Get the lube and a note that reads: Palmela, your first girlfriend will be there for you anytime you are horny in the near future. If he still doesn't get it...tell him to refer to whichever hand is holding the note!
You are so the QUEEN! I love you girl, keep up the work and call me we'll get together. Corey
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
DB is the only place that reminded me that there are great men still out there.
This is soooo true. This board restored my faith in men, and I'll just say human nature in general, right when I had lost all of it. How do you ever repay that kind of debt?
It is in the shelter of each other that people live.--Irish proverb
1. Go buy a new lock and cut that one off...it would be worth the price of admission to watch "Jerknosedickwad F*cktard" try and open the new lock.
2. Get the lube and a note that reads: Palmela, your first girlfriend will be there for you anytime you are horny in the near future. If he still doesn't get it...tell him to refer to whichever hand is holding the note!
damn right..excellent ideas.
BTW..I sure don't want any of you nice ladies po'd at me..
BTW..I sure don't want any of you nice ladies po'd at me..
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
