so twindad, when you read this tomorrow morning....and since you and i are very similar...did your W dance back and forth like this a lot? Once you saw she was going back and forth, did you increase your efforts or did you just continue what you were doing? I saw your thing on the Man Up thread over in MLC... I obviously know she's pulling back.....and i have to let her... i'm just not sure how to take some of the next steps.
suggestions?
ME:32 WAW:31 D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2 Together: 13 M:6 Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08 Sep legally: 6/18/08
"Tommorrow there'll be sunshine, and all this darkness past..." -Bruce Springsteen Land of Hope and Dreams
really not trying to be a pain, but why? i'm not opposed, but....again, why? shouldn't i just stand pat, continue what i'm doing, etc......just not increase things....ya know?
ME:32 WAW:31 D #1: 3.5 D #2: 2 Together: 13 M:6 Bomb Dropped: 2/15/08 Sep legally: 6/18/08
"Tommorrow there'll be sunshine, and all this darkness past..." -Bruce Springsteen Land of Hope and Dreams
neil.. as our communications counselor says.. 'why questions aren't allowed!!"
You can certainly stand pat, if you choose to do that. My gut says if I was where your wife was in getting some of my LL met by my STBXH, and it suddenly diminished (not vanished) but diminished I would come looking for it from whence it came (or where it went!)
just my two cents.. you'll have my support for either choice.
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