Hey Jen, One thing I'm noticing is that he seems to be declining a lot of your invitations lately...within the last week or so. I'd like to know what everyone else thinks, but I think it might be a good idea to not invite him to anything for a while. I wonder if he's feeling some pressure and you are overpersuing a little bit.
FLoyd The grass is always GREENER over the septic tank.
Floyd, I thought maybe I should hold back with the invites and yes he has declined 2 in 3 days. He's pulling back and I truely know I have to let him do that. Ok no more invites.
I'll try not to call him for anything tomorrow. I hope nothing comes up work related.
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
Hey Jen, One thing I'm noticing is that he seems to be declining a lot of your invitations lately...within the last week or so. I'd like to know what everyone else thinks, but I think it might be a good idea to not invite him to anything for a while. I wonder if he's feeling some pressure and you are overpersuing a little bit.
I agree with Floyd. H has been declining your invites lately and it would probably be best to not invite him for a while. He's feeling pressure. Instead of inviting H to do something with you, try to do something new to GAL.
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Hi Addie...I'll lay off the invites for a while. He still needs to pull back from Thursday night and I need some me time too. I think I can find something to do
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
