Back to stage 1...discouraged again

[LolaL]

Good DBing Jen, GOOD JOB!! Let us know how it goes, and remember, you can do this!!!

[JenInVen]

Thanks Lola!

Yes I can! I feel like a vehicle on Bob the Builder!

[AnewAmy]

Great job Jen!!! ((((Jen))))

You can do this. I know you can.

[JenInVen]

Thanks Amy! I'm feeling somewhat empowered today Let's see if I can stick to it...I believe I can.

[maninmotion]

You're getting a boob job Dan??

It seemed like too good a deal to pass up

Dan

[JenInVen]

Maybe pec implants? Men are getting those. It's a manjob

[Floyd101]

Dan won't ever be leaving the house.

[JenInVen]

Quick question...my class was cancelled tonight. What should I do? I don't want him to bring her home early and then go off and do whatever he wants...Do I just tell him my class was cancelled but I'm doing X?

[TwinDad]

How about "My class was cancelled but I am thinking about doing X so you can spend time with D"

BTW...you are sounding a wee bit controlling....don't try to control him, it only puts you in a bad light and makes you seem needy. I know you are trying to keep that from him, but if you amnipulate enough he will catch on. Also he has probably seen enough of this in the past to recognize it for what it is.

[JenInVen]

Hi TD, I certianly don't want to come across as controlling! He's been with D all day so I couldn't use that but how's this;

"My class was cancelled so I was thinking of going to a movie, I hope you don't mind watching D for a while longer tonight"