Ran into some old friends that happened to be vacationing at the same time.
Got a tan
Life Rocks......
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Builds the old self-esteem right back up out of the toilet
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Ex would not come in to see me when he dropped the kids off. Kids told him what happened in Vegas and the wonderful time I had as well as winning money. Kids stated that he seemed annoyed that my life was going well.
Oh well, that is his problem.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
Ooh, Trusting, I want to go now, too. I'm glad you had so much fun. I think it is what you needed!
If I may...your kids are giving you an awful lot of information about your ex. Are you sure you want them to report this sort of thing to you? First, it gives you thirdhand information and second, it puts them in a bad position.
May I suggest only going with direct communication that you experience w/your ex? I know you say you do not care about H's reaction, but at the same time, you seem to take what kids say quite willingly.
What if you ask them not to report things like this to you any more?
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D
I let the kids say whatever they want to say about ex. I do not ask or initiate any information regarding him. They are free to say whatever they want about him. 2 of my kids are older and very perceptive about ex. It is their way of processing their situation. I would never ask that they not say anything about him because of my feelings or lack of wanting to know. The reality is that they have a father who acts weird. They need to express this when they want to.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
