Trusting - his fairy tale life is not so pretty anymore --- now what is he going to do? This part is HARD TO WATCH!! I know this sounds "Sick" but thank goodness you are divorced. NOT becuauase you don't love...but because YOU DONT HAVE TO SUFFER for his "spree".
This is sad.....really sad. They are lost and messed up..... ugh.
have a good day miss T.
M-20 years/BOMB 12/24/06 Moved out 3/12/07 D final 7/30/2008 finding myself again
the collection agency came to your door???? wow, that is a new one. normally, it is all over the phone or by mail. there are so many people who have been turned over to collections these days due to the economy and i have never heard of this.
i wonder if it really was a collector.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Just checking on you! You sound like you are doing well. I think the email was great & you let him know you were there for him but he has to respect you also.
Collection agency, that is a strange one for sure!
We are in a new erra where collection agencies are sue crazy. I had one show up on my doorstep for some bill from years ago that h and I didn't owe.
They took us to small claims court. H and I fought the issue and won. It's ridiculous and these collectors won't give up the fight whether they know the bill is a mistake or not.
Yikes! Sounds like things are getting worse for your h.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
Had to call ex to get a copy of the house appraisal.
He was soo nice.
Could not get off the phone with him.
Funny how they get after you set boundaries
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
I had to take my daughter on an errand. We passed ex in his car. He was crying.......... He did not notice us in the car - thank god. It was very painful to see.
Ex came by the house to pick up the girls about 2 hours later. He came in his 2 seated jaguar without a car seat. I asked him how the girls would fit in there and that the baby would not be going in his car without a car seat. I had to drive them to ex's. Bimbo's car was there. This is beginning to be too much.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
If losing all your credit, having collection agencies after you, having the market fall apart when you are a financial investor, and losing the love and respect of all your family is hitting rock bottom than I guess he is.
But who knows........
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11
