I felt bad for hijacking Kat's thread so I thought I would move the latest weird details of life over her.
Through all of this craziness the OW's exH has always called me and kept me up to date on info his 10 yr old son would share with him about our spouses. I met him in person one time when I was subpeonaed to his divorce hearing! He calls usually once a month still to update me on the craziness.
I have friends that are separated and probably will end up divorced. My friend's OM happens to live in the same town as the OW's exH. I was telling him about it and he asked if I wanted to come down and see if we could find the house. I guess you could call it spying! We ended up finding it. I had been there once before but it's in the country and we had to really search for it. Well, afterwards he asked if I wanted to ride around a little more. We ended up 75 miles away at a casino! I should have avoided the casino, my money was easy come, easy go! I ended up getting home really late.
Well, guess who called me last night? Just to chat, I guess. The OW's exH. Weird, huh? Not sure if I'm treading in dangerous water or not. He's nice to talk to and I'm not interested in him, so is it okay to be friends?
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
