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Oh ya,

Got an email from lawyer. Needs more money......


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
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Those are definately bitter checks to write......

(((HUGS)))


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H - 37
S - 8
Married - 1992
ILYNILWY - August 2007
Moved Out - March 2008
OW Revieled - May 28, 2008
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Originally Posted By: brokenhearted
Those are definitely bitter checks to write......
It all depends on how you look at it. My Lawyer 2X4ed me into action and didn't let W take my kids away from me. That alone was worth every penny \:\)


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Dinner tonight: we prayed.

I asked what is the most important thing for each of them and to pray for it:

S7 - The family stops fighting. (we had a very good discussion)
S9 - Hugs. We stopped and had hugging time.
D6 - Kisses. We all kissed.

We talked about ways to deescalate issues that may come up. Very good discussions......


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Hi Ready!

Took me a bit but I found you! \:\)

I just wanted to stop by to tell you how much your encouragement means to me in this time of 'all hell breaking loose'.

I'm in that crazy stage right now...nothing makes any sense....did it make any sense before now? Ugh.

Also, wanted to tell you those pictures are gorgeous, and I want one of those pretty purple flowers, can ya get me one? hehe....what kind of flower was that in the second link? \:\) God's gifts...truly amazing!

Hugs to you R2C!

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DD:22, DS:12
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Married: 26 years 10-9-08...H filed for D same week as our anniversary.

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Originally Posted By: Ready2Change
Dinner tonight: we prayed.

I asked what is the most important thing for each of them and to pray for it:

S7 - The family stops fighting. (we had a very good discussion)
S9 - Hugs. We stopped and had hugging time.
D6 - Kisses. We all kissed.

We talked about ways to deescalate issues that may come up. Very good discussions......


(((Ready)))

Your positive attitude, and loving, gentle ways with your kids is wonderful ! Thanks for looking in on me.

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Awwww... Ready..

That sounds double adorable! Do you write these moments down in a journal. It's a gift you give to yourself and them. Do it!

Hope your day is going great!


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Sooo, Mr. Watusi..

What are you doing for yourself today?

Inquiring minds want to know!

*hugs*

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Ready - I admire the relationship you have with your kids. It is truely wonderful and inspiring. Going to take a leaf from your book. Keep strong.


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M: 17 yrs
3 kids
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Status: On Divorce track

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Thanks for thinking of me!

Mr Watusi is planning on going for a bike ride after work. I plan on doing some ME time tonight. I need some alone time.....

*HUGS*


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