These things really needed saying - I am very impressed with you. You seem so strong. It's time your H showed some genuine change and I hope he takes this seriously.
You are amazing.
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
I agree with Saffie. Yoyo, you are amazing. You are exactly right-- what you said to H was exactly what needed to be said. Good for you not allowing him to find a way to wriggle out of this again. He knows this time that if he again lets it slide then he is giving you tacit approval for proceeding with D. The ball's in his court but your not going to let him continue to stall either. Excellent.
wow, you did great... really that was awesome how you layed in on the line. truth darts for sure. i just hope for you that this can end or truly go forward. you need some answers and you need to get on with your life.
Your such a wonderful person, he's just plain crazy to let you go.
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me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
It is good to hear that he is remorseful. I hadn't expected that. And I don't buy the bankruptcy talk at all. He is still trying to scare you. He is guilty of all the things you are saying and he knows it. When I get home I will send you a Retrouvaille brochure. If he wants to "work on the marriage" 48 hours at Retro is not too much to ask. Insist on it. He stands to lose a lot, and he knows it. You done good.
wow girl, I am so proud of you! in fact you may have just helped me do what you just did, and hopefully say it as well as what you did! ok from reading, your husband cant let her go because of financial reasons and the business? there are issues there! oh and your comment about employee calling the boss just to talk, can i reverse that and steal it from you lol? hang in there sweetie, let us know how it goes!
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
