Nine more sleeps Not much to report , I had 2 uncles come over for dinner last night , had the 3 kids here , invited W as well as she has known them for 30 yrs . She declined which I expected . She made the comment " you are entertaining a lot lately" , a comment that she has made before. Not sure what she is getting at but its possible she feels she is missing out , who knows ?
Haven't been around in several months, but decided to pop in and see whose still around. From my point of view, based on this recent thread alone, it doesn't seem like things have changed in regard to your R. How do you feel about that?
Where are you traveling to exactly? Hope you thoroughly enjoy yourself!
You are right , very little has changed. W has been quietly distancing herself bit by bit but other than that its business as usual. I have been letting things settle as well , not rocking the boat. Off to the USA in the next few days for a bit of a road trip.
W was a bit more subdued when she called around home yesterday. Made a point of telling me her friend had seem me and an OW at a restaurant ( it was 2 months ago ) . OW is a good friend but no more , not that I am telling W that , if she wants to know she can ask.
Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7 Bomb 1 10/07/06 Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15 Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07 Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate 2/08 slowly improving 7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!) Current thread
I have not updated for a while because I have been a bit lost since my trip. I hoped that getting away would bring me some clarity and it did. I found that I missed my family while I was away and that was still most important to me. I guess I hoped that W would have felt the same ( I dont know why ) and when I got back she was unusualy nice to me but with the fact that OM is still in the picture. so in reality nothing has changed and I am no further forward in any direction. What I do know is that where I went in the US , I met some real great people and I dont know if I was just lucky but people here in NZ could learn a little about caring about others.
Hi Dave, Welcome home...glad you enjoyed your trip to our little country!
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What I do know is that where I went in the US , I met some real great people and I dont know if I was just lucky but people here in NZ could learn a little about caring about others.
I'm sure they were all charmed by your NZ accent! Seriously though, there are great people everywhere...just got to make sure you surround yourself with them and not the negative ones!
You know we're here for you if you feel like posting again...OK, not all the time, but you know what I mean.
Take care, SD
Me 41 W 41 Kids: S9 S7 Married 16 years Bomb dropped 2/2/07 Still living together! current thread
"So in reality nothing has changed and I am no further forward in any direction."
I think having OM still in the picture keeps the R "stuck."
I know what you mean baout missing your family, it's always hard to understand how they don't feel the same way.
I'm glad you had a nice trip & met some great people.
It may not seem like it now, but some of that clarity will likely have an influence on the course your R takes in the future. Putting yourself in a different environment has a way of doing that.
