Nice to read you again. I know how you feel about the not caring very much...I am pretty much there myself. How many times can you get kicked in the you know whats and still care? I am in a funk myself today (don't know if it is post vacation or post boyfriendation) and trying to breath. I am actually looking forward to watching the US elections coverage tonight. Talk about needing to get a life! Any suggestions on the best network coverage?
In response to your question of whether it's "bad" that you don't care about your ex's fender bender and job loss......no, that's not bad. Singing the Hallelujia Chorus while dancing a jig would be bad!! [Sorry but I couldn't resist........]
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TJ
Me45,H49 D24,S18 M26,T28 Bomb 3/19/08 Sep 6/23/08 EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8 3/2009 H moved in w/OW2 7/2009 Let him go w/Love. 8/2009 Legally Sep'd
I don't rejoice in my STBX's misfortune, because the majority of the time, he brought it upon himself. What I delight in, is the fact that my children have been given a chance at a better life. No one deserves to be abused. I firmly believe that what comes around, goes around. He'll get what he deserves, someday. I've heard Heaven is wonderful. I'm keeping my eye on the prize. Peace.
Me:44, WAW hx bi-polar H:48, hx of abuse S:22, S:19, D:16 Filed Oct 08, dismissed Filed again Jan 10, dismissed Now Piecing alter persona: SuperBoots
I meant that post as a complete joke.......I didn't mean to offend, and I sincerely apologize if I did. Truthfully, I don't think I would ever feel "vindicated" or happy to see my H suffering. In fact, I think I would feel even worse, because that would make it seem that much more difficult to understand.
TJ
Me45,H49 D24,S18 M26,T28 Bomb 3/19/08 Sep 6/23/08 EA/PA with Secretary 2007-8 3/2009 H moved in w/OW2 7/2009 Let him go w/Love. 8/2009 Legally Sep'd
SC, I'm sure everyone knew it was a joke. No worries.
In my life there have been certain things I fought against. I put up an incredible resistance, often internally. But in the end they simply proved to be my own windmills.... It's interesting that life continues to offer me that lesson. Perhaps it's because I find it so hard to learn.
I'm working on better accepting the things I can't control. I had made progress, but apparently not enough. But today I feel much better. Something clicked in the past few days. I found a little peace. At least for now
I am not mentally prepared for snow yet!!!! Actually I am not mentally prepared for a bunny either....I have a hunch the snow will get here before the bunny in my case.
