God works in strange ways indeed. If you get a chance, try to find an old thread by Praying4amiracle, or something to that effect. He experienced the other side of what you and I experienced. He too made the right decision at the time, choosing to honor the marriage, even though he had reached a point of moving on before his wife decided she wanted to try again.
Last I spoke to him, things had not worked out. I believe the resurrection of his marriage lasted less than a year.
Yep -- lasted 6 months (until Sept. 2007) when my MLC W unexpectedly turned off like a light switch. She filed a second time and our divorce was final Sept. 2008.
Giving my ex that last chance was probably the hardest thing that I have ever done given the circumstances. It was, however, necessary -- and I believe that despite having lost everything in the end.
I did get closure though and I couldn't be any happier at this point. Only by losing everything first and starting over with a clean slate has that been possible, however.
I don't know you Woog, but I can certainly sympathize with your situation. My only advice is to be patient. One way or another things will be far better in the future. It is only a matter of time.
Woog My brother, I am sorry I didn't see this last night. I am sorry you are feeling this way. I want to burrow in a cave for about a week--I would suggest we both 'hibernate' but then we wouldn't be alone,would we? Take care of yourself, b/c we care about you too........
