How are you doing ? What's new on the mediation front ? How's the co-parenting going ? What are your kids going to be for Halloween ? Do you have them or W ? Are you dressing up ? How's work ? Are you taking your vitamins ? LOL just kidding threw that one in there for fun.
Knock me over with the questions...
I am doing great! Each day is a wonderful experience. Thanks for asking!
I like the CFI. I feel comfortable talking to her and giving her my POV. I had to cancel the appointment with her yesterday due to this cold....
Co-parenting is going good. I feel more free to parent the way I believe is in the best interest of my kids. IE: less control, more fun, solid boundaries....
The kids are spending Halloween with MOM. This is one of the holidays that I love spending with the kids...Makes me sad that W doesn't want me to be with them while they trick or treat. Past Halloweens, W would rush to 12 different places and the kids spent most of it in the car. I want this holiday added to the divorce agreement with alternat years. I am going to address this with CFI.
W bought the costumes. I believe S9 is going as a storm trouper. Will find out from other 2 tonight......
I have my costume. Last thing is shoes....if you ever make it to the alternate universe you may see what I look like! I will be out taking photos at the local events. Should be a really interesting night....
I am focused at work. Things are slow and there is some fear (only 6 of us in the office). I am DBing with my boss. He likes to debate as a defense mechanism...I have been listening to and affirming his POV.....
PS: I try and get my vitamins from a varied and ballanced diet...Of course I still need my Starbucks and cookies...
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
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M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
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M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
1) Halloween: W came over with kids (Her parenting time) and we went trick or treating for 30 minutes (the five of us). It was nice that W stopped by, let me spend some time with kids during her parenting time and on top of that go along with us for 30 minutes. First time (since the bomb) we have done something as a family where I didn't feel any tension (maybe I have detached enough and not projecting anything on her)....
2) I had on interaction with W where I was able to do the "Hmmm" noise...It was good....
3) Lots of time with kids. Time with both my mom and dad also....
4) I went out Halloween night after kids and W left. Had a great time taking photos and interacting with people....
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
