A in Ohio - Dig Deep

[breakaway]

At this point I feel like a run away husband.

You're ignoring what you need for what you think you "should" do. Do what you NEED. Trust yourself.

[A in Ohio]

I need to get away from W and her drama. Within 12 hours she is polar opposites and I'm not interested in it.

I need to work on me. I need to not reward her for her anger and OM1 and OM2. She wants to be friends w/ benefits and I don't want any of that. I'm better than that.

[breakaway]

I need to get away from W and her drama. Within 12 hours she is polar opposites and I'm not interested in it.

I need to work on me. I need to not reward her for her anger and OM1 and OM2. She wants to be friends w/ benefits and I don't want any of that. I'm better than that.

Right.

(((((A)))))

[carpenter54]

A

I posted the same thing just the other day...I heard it's a form of self protection...it's not wrong...it's necessary.

[A in Ohio]

It's not that she's hurting me, I'm in a no win sitch. I'm not playing that game.

W fires off this unsolicited beauty. "This is why I want a D. You always hurt me. You just can't stop hurting me." Uh, all I did was not bite on her efforts to argue or me grovel.

This say 2 of 10 days w/ the kids for her. I will talk to the kids but not her while I am gone.

I know this. She will get the D to punish me. Not sure if I want to fight it many more. I've been thinking all day about "what M means to me". I prayed on it twice and still don't have an answer.

[Babygirl]

dont give up praying about it really. God will give you the answer. and yes you are do deserve better than that. I am proud of you for not playing her game.
hugs

[A in Ohio]

Turns out OM2 is from my hometown and I've been here 32 years. He graduated a year behind me and I don't know him. My brother posed this question, "You going to drop the dime to his H?". I couldn't answer that. I think it's wrong for him to write what he wrote to my W.

I think OM2 would run away from my W if the dime was dropped. I think he's just trying to get laid. He seems either very unstable or a player.

OM2 has been married 9 years. It would be easy to get info on him. Not sure what to do.

[breakaway]

Turns out OM2 is from my hometown and I've been here 32 years. He graduated a year behind me and I don't know him. My brother posed this question, "You going to drop the dime to his H?". I couldn't answer that. I think it's wrong for him to write what he wrote to my H.

OM2 has been married 9 years. It would be easy to get info on him. Not sure what to do.

A. Listen to me. Don't do ANYTHING right now. In fact...get the hell out of your house or something. Go shopping (okay that's girl advice, but maybe you should go hang out in the hardware store right now). Go see James Bond. STOP THINKING ABOUT W. For now.

[Babygirl]

uh oh i think breakaway will hunt you down if you dont mind lol!

prayer prayer prayer

[A in Ohio]

I'm tearing out my kitchen floor right now. I'm going to tie one on later today.

Needless to say, W is making this horrible. She is sh*tting where she sleeps and doing it in my extended social network. Either she is really neive or dying to get caught.

I will do nothing for now.