I'm tearing out my kitchen floor right now. I'm going to tie one on later today.
Needless to say, W is making this horrible. She is sh*tting where she sleeps and doing it in my extended social network. Either she is really neive or dying to get caught.
hey well come see me when your done, I will provide the drinks! I got the stove roaring, and football on the tv and radio!
it is VERY hard when they do it in our network of anykind, my H ow is from my hometown, where most of my family and our friends live. I kno he didnt want it out there, but she sure blabbed, that was stupid.
you can do nothing right now. I know you can!!!
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
If you're going to drink, you have to listen to this song. You might need a hounddog lying around too, I'm not sure. I don't think this is DB...but f**k it.
You know I don't like that you can't delete your posts if you change your mind. I'm kind of regretting my last post, I'm just flippant sometimes with my gallows humor. Sorry if it wasn't appropriate.
ahhhhhhhhh its ok, i actually love that song, and have applied it in my life a few times lol!!
M 36 XH 34 3 children If a house is divided against itself, that house will not be able to stand. Mark 3:25 "your mood swings are giving me whiplash" twilight ALIVE FREE AND HAPPY 2010
If you're going to drink, you have to listen to this song. You might need a hounddog lying around too, I'm not sure. I don't think this is DB...but f**k it.
OOOHHHH I forgot about that song! When I turn my phone back on, maybe I will make THAT my new ringback tone!!
SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance. I Corinthians 13:7
She is suffering from immense anxiety. She has done very bad things and has put herself into a very bad situation. She is looking for anything which will soothe her.
So she is escalating, both directions (positive and negative). When the positive (I want to come home) doesn't work right away, then she swings to negative (D stuff).
You need to stay dark. At some point she will collapse from mental exhaustion and the cycle will stop.
My wife had invaded my home and then was hysterically yelling into the answering machine a while back. She would have been threatining D, but already had the process going anyway.
I stayed calm and sure enough... just a few days later she collapsed.
Every situation is different. But if I were a betting man I would wager that your wife will collapse and the crazyness will stop by this Friday at the latest.
I think your degree of darkness should be proportional to her craziness. Right now, be very dark. But if you see even a small bit of rational behavior from her in the next few days then I would give at least a couple of short, calm, balanced text responses. You want to reward rational behavior and punish craziness.
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