A--Shake off the anger and resentment. When you have those things, you lose your power. Time will take care of the hurt. You've come so far and you don't want those things to get in the way of your progress. Be thankful for what it wasn't-PA with OM#1 and maybe and OM#2 or OM#3. Look at all the good your example is providing for others here. I let anger and resentment take over after OM#1 and PA and you know where I am now. Jame38 is another one who understands that forgiveness is crucial to healing.

I'm proud of you for all the changes you've made to save your family. In six months you have a clearer picture of why all this had to happen. Good for you on the negotiation. I think it all seems reasonable. The anger and resentment won't seem so important maybe. Have a good Thanksgiving.

M42
S12/D9
T17/M12
Bomb 1 3/22/06
Bomb 2 7/11/08
Bomb 3 7/31/08
W Filed 8/1/08
D granted 12/17/08
D Finalized 1/29/09

A man who compromises his principles never had them in the first place.