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Hey Watusi..

Good to see you keep going with that positive stride. You know you've become a babe magnet... Right?

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Hey Watusi..

How are those dancing skills?

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Dancing Skulls are good! LOL

Dealing with CFI things.....


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
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R2C - You have it as rough or rougher than me. But, you see the good in all those small things. I need to look harder at those things and recognize that. I do appreciate your comments and 2x4's -- I'm just really tired and frustrated (if you couldn't tell).


Me-44, W-45
Together-25 yrs, Married-21 yrs
D-17,S-15,D-13,S-10
ILYBNILWY Bomb: 10/2007
Status: Divorce Mediation, Still under same roof
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R2C,

Im here, Im hurtin, Im frustrated and not typin much, but Im holding on, barely.

This week Im coming to grips with dropping the rope and moving on. Theres not much left to do. Im trying to figure out what and how to say it to my girls.

I told w to choose. Face her fears and work on herself and get help. Help us.

Or,

Run away from her fears and we will seperate.

No more limboland. No more "I dont know". No more "I'll think about it." No more "I'm sorry." I cant do this anymore. Im tired of the hurt. The pain. The rejection. Im exhausted, mentally and physically. I am approaching "being done." Either shes in or shes out.

I just want to stop crying. I dont want to do that anymore.

Joe


M: 37
WAW: 35
D's: 9 & 7
M: 13
Bomb: 01/28/08
Status: Limboland
Total bomb drops: Lost count!
Support: Here, God above, and now the Love Dare

Love always prevails.
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Hey Watusi...

Sending positive thoughts and prayers for the CFI today...

You are amazing.. in how you process this, move this, make this all happen in such a positive, expansive, live your life and love type of way.

It's an honor to grab onto your tailcoat!

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Quick update:

Went to "Suicidal Tendencies" concert Friday night and the Nutcracker ballet today (With D6). What a contrast....

Concert clothing on Friday. Perry Ellis suit today.....


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Well a big hello to you my friend.....long time away for me. Thank you so much for your concern and for checking in on me. I read over your list of goals and think that they are very reasonable in your expectations for progress. How are tings going between you and W? Are things becoming more peaceful and better interactions?

Thinking of you!


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Me - 36
H - 37
S - 8
Married - 1992
ILYNILWY - August 2007
Moved Out - March 2008
OW Revieled - May 28, 2008
Filed for D - July 2, 2008

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Well.....

I feel like I am checked out of M now. I am keeping a sliver of faith that W will come around sometime next summer. I am moving on and enjoying all the other people that do not have a fortress around them.

I had so many women flirting with me yesterday that it is hard to even desire W. I know W is still confused about what is important, so I will be patient with her. I will keep passing out the kindness to her.....

DB away.....


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Hey Watusi..

Live in the now and keep your favorite questions in the fore front... "How will this effect my children?" "Is this in the best interest of my children?"

Or is there a time that changes just a tad?

*hugs*

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