A in Ohio - Rising Above The Ashes

[carpenter54]

Lately I can talk to my W about ANYTHING....and be about as flat as a pancake AND confident....I don't know how I do it!!

It is a gift.... LOL...

I am not saying I suceed 100% of the time.....but I am getting better!

[A in Ohio]

Maybe I'm just having a good day or something but I noticed a few things...

Got this text from W: "can you tell me when I can come and get all my things? there is is some xmas stuff that my mom gave me that I would like someday".

W is showing respect and not demanding. I replied back with humor and wouldn't let the serious conversation stay on track... W finally lightend up. Even offered to bring back some of the Christmas stuff I bought. I stopped texting her and got a "You still there text back." I'm done with her for the night. Leave her wanting more.

[mulesqb]

Good for you A! You sound like a man with a plan. OM doesn't stand a chance. Will never know what hit him.

Strength and Honor bro-keep it up!

[A in Ohio]

Last post of the night....

I sent W a text on accident (meant for SIL)reading "you still there?" W responds "yah". I replied "Oops wrong person". W is flipping out.. "Who you talking to", "Guess you can't tell me", "Why are you keep secrets". I'm not responding... What does she care?

[StrgMarvelousWmn]

LMAO! A that was awesome!

SMW

[Puppy Dog Tails]

Let her twist for awhile, and then tell her it was for your sister.

Good day, A!!!!

[AlexEN]

Let her twist for awhile, and then tell her it was for your sister.

Twisted Sister

[Puppy Dog Tails]

LOL.

[gucci loafer]

W is showing respect and not demanding. I replied back with humor and wouldn't let the serious conversation stay on track... W finally lightend up. Even offered to bring back some of the Christmas stuff I bought. I stopped texting her and got a "You still there text back." I'm done with her for the night. Leave her wanting more.

Excellent job. Just excellent...

Now.. THAT'S what I'm talkin... bout....

Piece of cake... Water off a duck's back.. Not a care in the world.. Single life is good and getting better everyday.. "Who needs it?"......

Keep on ducking and dodging in and out while using YOUR sense of humor... Never let her nail you down without your approval...

No controlling from us men.. Nope.. Nosiree.. Wouldn't think of it.. LOL....

[gucci loafer]

I sent W a text on accident (meant for SIL)reading "you still there?" W responds "yah". I replied "Oops wrong person". W is flipping out.. "Who you talking to", "Guess you can't tell me", "Why are you keep secrets". I'm not responding... What does she care? ]

Where did you learn these "advanced" techniques? LOL..

She may ask again today.. Duck and dodge and keep it light and funny and don't let her nail you down..

Example..

"Who you talking to"

AinO: "YOU right now.......How bout them Cowboys".....

"Why are you keeping secrets"

AinO: Me? Secrets? I'll tell you a secret.... I have always been scared of spiders. And don't you dare tell anybody that I told you that...............

Do YOUR version.. I think you are gettig the concept. Duck and dodge. Exaggerate when she asks you a question but do not answer her directly.. Leave her wanting more... Just as you did last night... Let her lead and pursue. Just respond sometimes faster than others or sometimes not at all...

Remember.. Be aware of overdoing the "advanced technique"... LOL.. A little medicine goes a long way...


Nope. No controlling from us sensitive men... Nosiree..