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My H and and have been seperated for a couple of years. In the divorce process. Recently, he has been making advances. Well a couple of months ago we slept together . First time in two years. last night , we again did. What do you think about sleeping with him...He has OW who is long distance. I feel it makes a connection.

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Hi Input please. i have been here awhile and heard this helps with reconnection. Or at least point me in the right direction to find out more info.

I know glam,and others have done this too.

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If you have been here a while then you know there is both sides of this story.
There are women who have success stories that maintained that physical connection with their H.
There are women who have sex with their H and feel like a slut after it is done.
Are you being safe?
Most importantly, how do YOU feel about yourself?


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When we do he asks if I am taping thiseventhough he is the onbe who begins it.

Do I feel like a slut? No .not at all. It doesn't feel that way to me. I feel good because I enjoy it. The day after I feel normal. It is just weird that NOW he is becoming more intimate with me. He was angry at me and distant for a LONG time . Acouple of months ago we started developing a friendship. In Sept he showed up at my house and we slept together.
And last night, we were talking about our child andhe was down.
I'm not sure if I am doing the right thing. But it feels ok.

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