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Merrry Christmas, Ready,

I couldn't resist the chance to come thank you for the Christmas wishes. You stay strong too, m'friend. (I need a poke).

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Wife actually said "Bye" on the phone tonight......


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
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Merry Christmas! Ready, your an inspiration for us all. I seem to get way more from my wife than you have from yours, and yet you seem to be in a much better place than me. I use you as an example to follow. Thanks for being my inspiration...


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Hey Ready..

Your wife said "Bye" on the phone? That's a first isn't it? Or a rare occurence.

How was your Christmas with the kids?

Thought of all the hugs and love you were giving them.

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Originally Posted By: Ready2Change
I know what I need/want out of a relationship, and have accepted that my W is not able/willing to do what it takes to make a marriage work. I know there is a woman out there that is....

Many of us have come to realize this about our WAS and our own sitch. Focus on yourself and your children.
I hope you had a good Christmas.


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<< I know there is a woman out there that is....

and there's a woman out there that's hoping someone like you exists for her. I hope you two find each other.

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Hey Devil Bunny... (the ultimate DB'er)..

There is a woman that's right for you... in fact there's probably as many as a diamond has facets, a disco ball has mirrors, the space station has nuts and bolts.

Different people bring unique feelings and sense of being out of you. Think of all the people you turn to support.. are they all the same? Is talking to each of them unique or interchangeable?

I think this is a great time to experiment, to sample, to find what you like and dislike, to discover who you are as an unmarried man and father. When my divorce is final, I'll be more unmarried than single. But that's me and my babysteps.

Anyway, you can do whatever you want, Devil Bunny..

Enjoy and share the love.

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Hi Ready,

Just read through your sitch...and, what can I say, you are a great man. Back when I started visiting this site, I read a lot of what Coach used to write about aspiring to deal with his sitch as a great man would - and I see that you are doing so. I admire your strength and positive thinking - and so happy for your children that they have you as their father.

It means a lot to me to read about your journey - your growth - and it reminds me how important it is to come out of all this as a better person - no matter what the outcome.

Cheers,
Carlos.


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Hi Guys, thanks for stopping in. I am busy being Mr Mom until the 7th. Good times with the kids playing guitar hero world tour. It has been warm the last few days. We went to the lake and slid around.


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