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I forgot to mention that s7 said to h the other evening, dad when are you going to start sleeping here. H said he didn't know. S7 says when dad, I want you to sleep here. H said I don't know again.

Wow, I am sure that felt like pressure to h, but at least it's not from me.


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Hey GG

Just stopped by to say thanks for the input. Hang in there and I am praying good things for you in 2009!

Happy New Year

Jeff


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Thanks Jeff. I know good things are going to happen for you. I can only pray that this will be the year my h decides to venture home.


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I too agree about H watching the kids. My H is a mess when he's not working, or when he's not with D. I think work and D help him in a way. I think being with the kids is something that's good for GG's hubby too.

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Thanks FG. No word from h yet today. He said he would be over around 2pm, well that didn't happen. We don't have much plans other than eating dinner and then toasting to the new year with sparkling cider and noise makers for the kids.

I did try calling him, no response. I still think he will be here, just maybe busy with work right now.

If he doesn't show it's ok, Glam will be fine!


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H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

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I have to get back into the exercising and the healthy eating once again. For the past few weeks it has been eat whatever. Not so sure I gained any weight back, but just craving the healthy lifestyle that I was getting used to.

I tried calling my gym, but no answer. I hope they are open tomorrow, so I can hit the new year on a healthy note.


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S 22
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H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

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The Y I now go to was only open until 3pm today and only from 10am-1pm tomorrow.

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Hey G, just wanted to wish you and yours a Happy New Year. I gained some weight over the holidays, starting fresh next week.

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Well h is no call no show. It's ok the kids are hungry and we will forge on without him. Not going to let it bother me.

Thanks BM.


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Ok just walking out the door and h calls. He says I am on my way. I said what happened. He said Glam I am really depressed. I was sleeping. He said he didn't take any sleeping pills, but all he wants to do is sleep.

I just said well h come on over the kids and me are hungry. I said you have that appointment with the Dr on Tues, so hopefully we will learn something then.

I don't know what to do here. I suspected h was sleeping again, but then I get worried when I don't hear from him.

Prayers needed so much for h's depression. I am going to see if he will let me lay hands on him and prayer over him tonight.

I feel so helpless. Especially when h doesn't live here I have NO idea what could have happened to him. I don't think it's healthy either to be alone when you are depressed. I do think being around me and the kids lifts his spirits.


Me 50
H 42
S 22
S 9
D 7
M 12
T 17
H moved out 8/2006
H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks
H moved home 5/2011 for good

"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
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