Merry Christmas! Ready, your an inspiration for us all. I seem to get way more from my wife than you have from yours, and yet you seem to be in a much better place than me. I use you as an example to follow. Thanks for being my inspiration...
MMe-28 W-27 together 5yrs M-4 Kids-1 D-3 Bomb 20 Oct 08 Filed for D 29 Oct 08
I know what I need/want out of a relationship, and have accepted that my W is not able/willing to do what it takes to make a marriage work. I know there is a woman out there that is....
Many of us have come to realize this about our WAS and our own sitch. Focus on yourself and your children. I hope you had a good Christmas.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
and there's a woman out there that's hoping someone like you exists for her. I hope you two find each other.
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M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
There is a woman that's right for you... in fact there's probably as many as a diamond has facets, a disco ball has mirrors, the space station has nuts and bolts.
Different people bring unique feelings and sense of being out of you. Think of all the people you turn to support.. are they all the same? Is talking to each of them unique or interchangeable?
I think this is a great time to experiment, to sample, to find what you like and dislike, to discover who you are as an unmarried man and father. When my divorce is final, I'll be more unmarried than single. But that's me and my babysteps.
Anyway, you can do whatever you want, Devil Bunny..
Just read through your sitch...and, what can I say, you are a great man. Back when I started visiting this site, I read a lot of what Coach used to write about aspiring to deal with his sitch as a great man would - and I see that you are doing so. I admire your strength and positive thinking - and so happy for your children that they have you as their father.
It means a lot to me to read about your journey - your growth - and it reminds me how important it is to come out of all this as a better person - no matter what the outcome.
Hi Guys, thanks for stopping in. I am busy being Mr Mom until the 7th. Good times with the kids playing guitar hero world tour. It has been warm the last few days. We went to the lake and slid around.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
