Hi,BND just read the post I have a question....my husband gave me my child support for this month but it was short by $150 so I emailed him asking him why he was short and for him to call me about it.... I spoke to him yesterday had a good talk.I also emailed him telling him how I was still praying about our family and our marriage....he never emails me back so that doesnt bother me.... Just wondering if he is taking me for granted because of the email I sent him yesterday...he could of told me yesterday he was going to be short but he said nothing.... what do you think?
M-53 H-46 M-24+YRS BOMB-10/14/07 2-S 2-D Grandkids-7 Greatgrand kid-1 He needs space... Wants to start fresh new life W O/W Moved in his O/W Oct.08
Irmat, Stick to business. Child support payments are business. Stick to the facts.... Be nice about it, but be firm. DO NOT tell him you are praying for your Marriage. Do NOT tell him you love him. Do NOT email him. Leave the Man alone.
I am glad you had a nice chat, that is a good thing. If you want to have more of those nice talks, I suggest that you don't spook him by having any type of discussion about your feelings.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
BND is right. Let him be for now. Do not tell him you love him or that you are praying for him/marriage as it backfires. Keep that between you and God for now.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I will I just didnt want hi, to think I was money hungry...I really do try to take your advice...and I am doing lots better... I actually hate calling him anymore because it just reminds me that he is not here with us.....I very rarely email him.... contact with him is very minimal....it is hard but I am getting there...and you are right no more talk about prayers...
He actually let me know on christmas and the other day when we spoke that he was actually going to church now....he made a joke of it somewhat.... said he was probably the youngest person there... and I believe it... the town where he lives is very country and semi retired community... lots of older people... so I am sure he is the youngest at that church...
I guess he wanted to let me know he was also praying or whatever he thinks he is doing by going to church...I am sure it doesnt hurt for him to go...
thanks ladies for your support and my prayers are all with us in here... talk at ya'll later
