Sheesh oh petie!!! Any woman who wants to be with a man who still lives with his XW2B, has the nerve to show up at family functions during the holidays, and doesn't mind waiting in the car while he runs in the house... just HAS to have problems. If your X2B thinks that R is going to work he is delusional.
BTW, the way I dealt with my H wanting more custody is I refused anything less then an 80/20 split. Then I gave him the choice of which one he wanted. Fortunately the idea of me handing over the kids, and flying off to Florida to go live my fantasy life on the beach... writing novels, sipping margaritas, and dating hunky surfers almost caused him to have a heart attack.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
80/20 rules seems a good one to use. Laughing about OW being 10 yr younger but looks older. LO, I don't know how you look, but I am sure you are pretty, and I am sure you have more class and internal quality that beats OW hands down. good luck in the custody fight.
Thanks for all of your responses. I thought it was funny that she said that haha!
I've been feeling different lately.. Maybe I've started to see that my future is open to what I make of it. Maybe I'm actually looking forward to it. I don't know but I've been feeling strangely optimistic.. Maybe it's just that I'm glad that I have a job since we are eliminating a bunch of people (and, I have to do the dirty work!.. ugh!!!!!)
you got the results back ??? prayers your way))))))))))
Yes, ideally we should'be stayed a family, but that is not all God had planned for us, He wants to bless you a give you a full life LO, your M ending wasn't the end of it all, it was the end of a road, you are in a new one and you can and will do better))
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
haha!