Boys had baseball last night (her parenting time). I spent most of the game playing with D6. What a blessing. She is an amazing little girl. We had so much fun.
I completely avoided eye contact with MsR2C for most of the time. We made eye once. It was the longest she has done that since the bomb.........
Game was called early due to lightning. Kissed the kids goodbye. I watched the kids all climb in her parents car, and she into hers (this means they are spending night and next day at her patents). I felt angry. I felt it, processed it, and then let it go.
She spends all the money fighting for custody, then during her parenting time she keeps sending the kids off to her parents. Step up and be the parent. Anyway, her choice. I have the same choices and do let the kids spend the night at my parents, so all is good. Forgiveness is a wonderful thing!
During the divorce, I should have pressed a little harder to get "First Right of Refusal".
On another note, my brother passed away about 12 years ago from lightning. The storm triggered more emotions. I drove home an let them out.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
Yes, so what are you go to "make" happen for you? After all it is a done thing. Just a little hard getting in to the frame of thinking but I am working on it. Hope you are doing well.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I read on Oprah's site once that when they were discussing The Secret, Jim Carrey actually wrote himself a check for a million dollars and told himself that he was going to be able to cash that in xx amount of time! Pretty powerful stuff that Law of Attraction. Oh and what color is that pretty new car? (mine keeps switching between red and blue).
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
I just wanted to drop you a quick note. I wrote down my list for the Secret too. Things are happening on it but not necessarily the way I imagined. Be open to how you receive what you "know" you already have.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Oh and what color is that pretty new car? (mine keeps switching between red and blue).