This weekend, MsR2C and I had an exchange of words. She expressed her opinion that I was a certain body cavity. I did a big 180 and reciprocated with a request to stop acting like another body cavity.
It is amazing how our (ex)spouses can bring out the worst in us.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
Hang in there R2C. You are right that they can bring out the worst in us. It will be forgotten in a week. Keep on keeping on. Over all you have done an amazing job of DBing.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Communication is happening! We had real dialog today (Via email). I have been more assertive as a parent but in indirect ways. She said I was "harassing", so I pulled out all the "direct" issues.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Happy Thanksgiving R2C. We've known each other 17 months now. When I first joined here, I never expected to have friends like you.
xoxo
scookie
M 19 years, MC for 8 months, DB'd for 8 months 4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10 I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.
