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I don't have advice for you, but I have eyes that 'listen'. I'm sorry you\'re in a rough spot. I know when I get that way, I just want to hear a kind or encouraging word anywhere, from anyone.

I know it's hard. I'm sorry you're hurting. Hang in there and know that this, too, shall pass. We may not know the hour or the manner or the outcome, but we will all survive and come out the other end stronger.

Tea and sympathy, prayers and good karma to you. smile


The trouble with having an open mind is that people put things in it.

My sitch - Divorce Busted!
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Dia

Wow you registered a few days after me, I'll come over and read your sitch.

It felt really good to get all that garbage out of my head and on this board.

I'm feeling quite good right now.

Thanks for looking in and the kind words.

I just don't know how to handle this financial demand. I know she doesn't make a lot of money, but I refuse to pay her to go out and have a good time either. This is what keeps slapping me in the face.


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Brave, sounds like you are standing up for yourself quite well. Don't sweat the financials, she is the one that left, maybe she should have thought of the impact prior to leaving the house. It also seems that she has no problem throwing the "poor me " attitude for you. Maybe you need to tell her you will have the money at the car exchange, then if she doesn't show, tell her you used the money to rent the car you needed. Just a thought.....


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LMAO,

I was thinking right along those lines, but I was really mad. Hearing it from someone else just seems like the right thing to do.

Thats a Kodak moment I would love share with you all.


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I will send you my email so you can forward the pic of the look on her face! LOL


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Barve,

So many threads, so many posts - easy to confuse someone who's just woken up smile

Posted to dia's thread but I meant to do it here.

Chin up.

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Shock

It would look real good on her face book home page!


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Hi Brave,

Just thought of something.

Lets imagine we're capacitors - building-up a charge from the W time and time again.
And just storing it for the right moment.

Hehehehe

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And back you you.

Read cabbr's thread - from Greek.

Chin up!

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Mac,

Posted on wrong thread a minute back Thanks for looking in.

Greeks words are very powerful. I like her post very much. Know if I could just stay in front of everything we learn here I'd be doing great.

I just can't let it get to me.

My works been slow for the last 3 weeks. I'm only sleeping just a few hours a night, so I'm a big bundle of nerve's. Gonna take D 6 swimming and try to unwind.

If anyone else is taking a gander at my thread please feel free to chime in.

Thanks to all who look in from time to time.


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