BE VERY, VERY CAREFUL!!!! You know what I've said about enforcing child support once they lose their job. Mine still doesn't have a decent job and the state warned me that if I petition for what he's in arrears the judge would most likely throw out the judgment and reduce the CS to his current income level which would leave me with nothing at all. Dan knows all of this BBJ. He knows how the system works and frankly I'm convinced he's pulling this crap in order to either 1)stop you from filing right now so that he has more time to hide more assets. or 2)Plans to tank his finances due to 'unemployment' so that when the D is finalized he will have nothing left of any real value and you will be left with all of his debt since it was aquired while you were M'd.
I hate to think this way of anyone, really I do, but Dan is a manipulative SOB!!!!! GGGGGRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!!!!!!
I'm so sorry he is keeping you reeling like this BBJ. You don't deserve to be treated this way. He's a wanker!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
BBJ, let your L handle Dan from now on. Move quickly, BBJ. Call the shots hard and fast because....well, you know Dan.
And the crumbs of hope he's offered recently are laughable. He still believes he can reel you back in with another "talk" about....again...what? His ego knows no bounds.
Didn't Dan have a similar panic a few months back... conflict with the boss, I might be fired?
I don't think anything he does right now is relevant. Do what needs to be done. Let the lawyer do his job. Sooner or later Dan will figure out it's serious, and that he isn't driving the train.
Sick little boy, fever and cough with belly ache. Gotta keep an eye on him...
Dan says he is looking into retreats and other options for us and is going to tell me what he found by the end of the day. I decided to give him that long. I told him the other night that I have done all the work to 'fix' things and if he meant it this time he was the one who had to figure it out and he agreed.
He talked for 2 hours Wed night and I know words mean nothing at this point. However some of the stuff he finally opened up and admitted and shared was stuff I thought he would always lie about so who knows.
As I said I already have the paperwork done at the lawyers and they have my $3200. I am 1000% ready to go.
