Going straight forward...antlers 5th thread.

[orangedog]

Just checking in to see if you've ridden another century this week or something.

[antlers]

Nope. I did ride 863 miles during the month of August though! And already, I've logged over 300 miles for September, so far! Thanks for checking in and asking, orangedog.


ps - I'm sorry about the package you received today, man. It ain't over until the judge signs off, and even then, it ain't always over after that!

[antlers]

In a love relationship, you need to promote compassion, which is the only reliable prevention of resentment, anger, and abuse. - Steven Stosny



ps - Everytime you smile at someone, it is an action of love, a gift to that person, a beautiful thing. - Mother Theresa

[sandi2]

Hi Antlers! I was wondering if you would look in on a Newcomer, please. He is "fighin4mywife". I thought of some things you had said when you first came to the board and I feel if there is anybody who can encourage this man, you can.

Thanks buddy.

Oh, the title of his thread is "Help Me Bust My Divorce".

[antlers]

Hi sandi.

I'll do it.


ps - I stopped by your thread recently. Hope all is well with you.

[Coach]

Antlers, What's up with you? You are a success story here. You did the work and handled it.

Cheers
Coach

[antlers]

Hey Coach.

Nada mucho.

Been ridin' a lot. I've ridden 597 miles so far this month. Things are good with my kiddos. I really enjoy the time I spend with them, and they enjoy the time they spend with me too. Work is very busy, and it usually picks up this time of year.

Wife is still healing...I suppose it'll take a long, long time.

Riding has been a Godsend to me. Any stressors that I have...I just ride em' into the pavement. It's been so good for me, in so many ways. I've met lots of people to ride with networking in the bicycle community, and I ride with many different groups.

I appreciate you, and the good work that you do here. Thanks for enquiring about me.

antlers

[antlers]

Got a call from her this morning saying she is going to see an attorney this afternoon and she needs a copy of my paycheck stub and our last year's tax return.
She says she does not love me anymore, that she has too many scars from our past, and that she wants it to be over.
I listened to how she felt, and I told her how I felt. She got mad several times while I was talking.
She is resolute, and has her mind made up, and says she has been this way for a long time.
I don't feel comfortable giving her attorney this information...I need to retain an attorney myself.

I'm asking for some advice here. Please.

[Coach]

Yes, you need to get a L if she has one. Let her know that your L is handling legal correspondence.

Mad is good, what was she upset about?

[antlers]

Got a call from her this morning saying she is going to see an attorney this afternoon and she needs a copy of my paycheck stub and our last year's tax return.
She says she does not love me anymore, that she has too many scars from our past, and that she wants it to be over.
I listened to how she felt, and I told her how I felt. She got mad several times while I was talking.
She is resolute, and has her mind made up, and says she has been this way for a long time.
I don't feel comfortable giving her attorney this information...I need to retain an attorney myself.

I'm asking for some advice here. Please.

Should I respond to her and tell her that I don't feel comfortable providing this until I've had a chance to discuss it with my attorney?

I sure need some advice/input here! Please?