#66 Looking for Susnhine...

[Kalni]

mish,
I never ever had any doubts you all want anything else but me being happy (ok, except John maybe but I digress-LOL- ti amo pig-cousin).

I dont know if he will find the strength to decide he will be a good person in the sense that I've explained. I told him I dont want easy answers. He is facing himself, not me.
He knows and I could hear it in his voice, I am strong enough to handle both options. He knows now, I am clear about what my life should be like. He knows I would file tomorrow.
K

[AliSuddenly]

No.. I saw the same thing and thought of your son too. It was pretty big though and heavy (it had sand in it).. you would think me mad if I had posted it over. I dont remember that no, doesnt sound that hilarious and if anyone ever has a flat mood around here, believe me, its him, not me !

That all soudns very good.. I am glad you are honestly communicating at last.

[Virtually_Handsome]

((((((Kalni))))))

I like your plan. I like what you told him.

I guess it is time to watch and wait. Will his actions match his words?

[The Wifey]

The vision of myself today was one of me being content, happy, growing, sharing, learning, feeling equal, balanced, satisfied. And all that not in a fairytale setting. All that in REAL LIFE. And I can fight for that and work and listen and compromise. But the goal now for me, is to keep improving, facing difficulties with strength, being a good mother, growing up with my kids, being a good friend, an exciting lover, a compassionate partner. That is how I see myself.That's my goal.
K

Kalni, you have grown so much and have the strength of a warrior. You will be ok either way. You are an example for all of us to follow.

Now it is up to him to make a decision. Not just a choice between you and her, but a decision who he is and how he wants to live. My prayer is that he can fully live this life with you.

[JCJ]

(((Kalni)))
Excellent news on your father and I love what you wrote above.

Sending you good wishes (and fabulous shoes!).

J

[Kalni]

Good Morning,
I hope everyone is ok today. I am ok too.

I have had some weird friend's requests on my normal FB page. One name I recongnised as a name that OW worked with and had a fight with in the past. I remember reading about him in her emails. I told stxH about it. I actually asked him if any of these men are his friends. He said he did recognise the specific one but I didnt ask where from.

I am going to the game tonight. I have never been to a game of the national team before. I am going with a friend of mine.
K

[mishka422]

Wonderful news about your dad K! I'm so trilled to see that the therapy seems to be working. My best wishes to him and I will continue my prayers for him.

Wait, doesn't your H work for the national team in some respect? And you've never been to a game? WTH? Am I missing something?

Have a wonderful time! Chant lots and scream loudly! I love sporting events, especially live and in person. It's much more satisfying to scream with thousands of other fans at the referee's when they make a bogus call rather than yelling at your TV in your living room. Can you tell I spend a lot of Sunday's doing that?

[john210]

Well Luxembourg is not exactly a soccer powerhouse but at least it will get you out of the house! My prediction, Greece wins but so does Switzerland and therefore, you guys will have to go to the playoff round in order to qualify for the World Cup next summer. Of course reigning champions ITALY are already qualified as they already have finished first in their division!
More importantly, glad yor dad is showing some positive signs.
Have fun tonight!

[mishka422]

Hey! The US qualified too!!! We're VERY excited. Ok, those of us who like soccer. I still don't understand why there isn't a bigger following for the game here. It's so fast paced. Maybe because it's not high scoring. Of course, neither is baseball and it's DULL DULL DULL and has a huge following. Go figure!

[AliSuddenly]

Hey K.. wow, you're going to a game? Thats cool and like Mish I was wondering then, how come you havent been before !? (Unless he got his job in the past 3 years, so maybe he never asked before). So you will be going as his W hey (you meeting up with him at the stadium after?)

Did you read Priya today? I thought it was beautifully written and she was right to predict gay marriage becoming an issue and then Obama made that speech!

I am ok today too.. I really feel like we are speeding into a new future now and its going to be ok.