n, What a freaking @itch! I would print that letter off and keep it safe...you just may need it down the road. She, of all people, should not be addressing your support...sounds to me like they are in desperate need of cash. As for the time share, if it is in the divorce decree that he is to receive it, then he should be paying the fees...not you. It sounds to me like she's hoping you'll take the bait and use it...therefore, you would need to pay the fees. Don't buy into it. She's trying to set you up. She wants you to come back to her in writing with something smart so that she can validate her "claims" about you. Let it go!
Who is she to be telling you about spelling? She can't even get the support right. Sounds to me like she's starting to lose it big time.
Do not respond to anything she sends to you. Don't even send an email to your xh. It is clear he's not reading his emails and she's made his a hostage in his own stupid situation. An adoption? I don't think so....history has been rewritten all over the place.
I totally agree!! She is dangerous!!! There are so many things that she wrote in that email that is so untrue!!! I wasn't the one complaining about paying child support to his son's mother!! If you count it up, total they are not paying me near as much as we paid her. Oh well, like you said. I'm letting it go. I'm not responding to anything she says!!!
As far as the spelling on that letter I wrote to the time share people, there may have been one word that I used incorrectly, I think I said "was" instead of "were" the spelling was correct & she should go back & read some of the emails she has sent me!!! Talk about spelling & english for that matter.
You are so right, she is a frecking bit......!!!! I have never in my life been around anyone as mean or even heard of anyone as mean & hateful!!! I cant' believe they would adopt, at their age, I think it's one of her traps!!!
n, She is a very desperate woman and will pull out any black magic she can from her hat. YOU know the truth, so don't take her bait. She's talking out of her @ss.
Print the email off and then delete it from your system. One day, you may need that as proof.
Try to enjoy your day and do not let her get to you. She's definitely not worth it.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Nlt, I am sorry you had to be on the receiving end of that. But she shows her colors; she is obviously threatened by you and you know what kind of person she is.
Your H will find out, too, hopefully at an important point.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D
N what a sick person OW is she is heartless..with no empathy She cant even see it..the pain you have been through and in her sick way, she wants to hurt you more as sonodderly aid let it go get her out of your thoughts clear your energy of her I have a feeeling you xh already knows the mess he got himself in continue to take care of yourself peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
Yes, nlt, you are huge threat to her! It's really comical how she has your ex, lives in exotic locales, far, far away, and still feels threatened.
don't worry, this won't last and in fact, it seems as though it has hit the rocks already. "happy" people do not write emails like this. and wealthy people do not nit-pick over petty expenses.
i do wonder about your ex though. why on earth did he do this and would you be willing to take him back after all this?
Hi nlt. Not only is she vicious, a little bit crazy and completely off the wall - I suspect she's also telling fibs.
I've had quite a lot to do with International Adoptions from Asia and they have very strict age limits for parents - it would be very rare indeed for a couple over 35-40 to be acceptable adoptive parents for a South East Asian baby - they may be eligible to adopt an older child (over 10), but not a baby.
The woman is crazy and you are clearly taking up as much or more space in her head than she is in yours.
It's been my experience that people who display and express such inappropriate anger will be their own undoing.
You keep on your journey - you are growing strong and independent ... she's a long way down on the spirirual and individual growth curve.
Ignore her - that will bug her more than any response from you ever could.
Take care, V
V
Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.
Hi everyone!!! Thank you all so much for responding!!! I can't tell you how much I appreciate your help & support!!!!
My ex's best friend has told me that this woman is a passive aggressive & also a sociopath. SCARY!!!
I really do think that she wants me to respond to this email so I can defend myself b/c she knows what she is saying are all lies. But, I'm not going to give her the satisfaction! I agree with all of you & I will not respond to her. I think that will get to her more than anything. If I do respond, she will just keep it up & that will be a game she likes to play.
Virginia, thank you for telling me about the laws in Asia, I wasn't aware of that. She will be 51 next month & my ex will be 50 in Feb. so hopefully that was a lie too. Why in the world would she bring that part up to me!!! When we were married I didn't want my husbands x to know anything about us & what we were doing. Besides, my x is her 4th or 5th marriage, so I would think that would be a red flag also.
I have a strong feeling my x is leading a pretty miserable life about now. I don't know that for sure but who wouldn't be living with someone like her! I'm sure he feels like he is in prison about now & may not know how to get out.
Again, thank you all for being here for me!!! I have a file in my outlook titled EX & I keep all correspondence from him, which has only been about getting his things of the house or sending him something & that was summer of 2008, all the other emails have been from OW.
Thank you for posting to me!! I really appreciate everyone's support!!
I agree, the money must be tight. I'm not sure about the restraining order, I'll have to check on that, but you know they are half way around the world, she has to email me this nasty stuff so she still feels threatened by me, I think that says something.
I just will not respond. That will get her more than anything. I'm doing all right. It bothers me at first when I get these emails but then that just lets me know her insecurities lie with me.
