He let it slip to a mutual friend. He was bragging about how clever he was. The mutual friend felt bad that he would do this, and thought I should know.
The last couple of days have been interesting to say the least. I feel like I'm the lead actress in a made for TV movie.
It is possible a keylogger has been installed on this computer. It came up when I was scanning. I asked the tech guy at my work about it, and I'm going to bring it in next week. So mostly I have been doing alot of reading, and not much posting.
Also, I had a flat the other night on the way to a friends house. Her H took off the flat, and had to take it to air it up, because the "donut" was flat also. The next day I took my car to get it serviced at the place I've been taking it for years. They know me personally there. When I went back to pick up my car, they told me all my tires were dangerously low. They wanted to know if I knew anyone that would want to let the air out of my tires, because they couldn't find a leak anywhere. Mmmm.... Could it be? Then I told them H and I were still living in the same house. These tires are only a year old. The owner wants me to stop by once a week to check them. He also told me if I ever need to talk, that he has big ears and a small mouth. lol
So there's a little update for you. Thanks for wondering about me.
I had a flat tire yesterday - but all of your tires dangerously low? This does not sound good, not at all. Who do you suspect would do such a thing?
Please be careful and post when you can. Buy a new laptop and keep it away from your H.
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10
Wow - that is crazy about your tires and your computer. I agree with SF about getting a new laptop and not letting your H know you have it. Do you think your H would let the air out of your tires??
MLJ, Ditto. Be careful. Check that car everytime you get in. Consider having one oof those alarms installed that go off whenever car is jostled or even touched!
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
Hi Faith, Serenity, and all my other friends here...
I am Okay, I am just being STILL for a little while.
With the upcoming D hearing on Dec 11th, I have been spending more time praying than reading lately.
My MLC H and I continue to live in the same house as the D proceeding quickly approaches. He also continues to keep a cool distance from me as if I was the one who had om, instead of the other way around. He avoids me, and he was the one who cheated on me. I don't think it's guilt, as I still don't believe he thinks he has done anything wrong.
I feel like the sand in the hour glass has almost all sifted to the bottom. That the time is almost run out. I would like nothing more than to have this turn around before it does. I know it's all in GODS timing, and he is in complete control.
If anyone has any advice for me while there are still some grains of sand left, I would be grateful to hear it.
As for now, I continue to take one day full of prayer at a time.
