Kerry, the way I see it, it is more than safety. It's leaving the kids, abandoning them alone in their home while their mom could have been with them. Not to mention that such changes/decisions should have been discussed with Sandy.
I think your email was too polite. WTH is going on in his head? Jesus! Stay strong dear. K
It probably was rude to just up and leave the kids by themselves, but they are 13 and 15 so I am sure they were ok. I know when I was 15 that I was pretty independent.
Dang Kerry, I didn't know he had a self portrait done... now that would have been a great present ....oh and some darts to throw at it...:LOL
Here is the deal two weeks ago we had a home invasion on our neighborhood. This is something we should both be aware of and agree to (letting kids sleep at the house alone)..... I don't agree to it as I am only out of the house because he is in it.... and by my good graces... I don't have to allow him to come here but I know it's short term. The kids are very independent and are fine but that's something that should be communicated...kinda like the first right of refusal.... Do you think he would like it if I stayed out with FF guy all night and left his kids home alone? Sounds different that way doesnt' it?
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
Kerry, the way I see it, it is more than safety. It's leaving the kids, abandoning them alone in their home while their mom could have been with them. Not to mention that such changes/decisions should have been discussed with Sandy.
I think your email was too polite. WTH is going on in his head? Jesus! Stay strong dear. K
Girl, I'm just biding time till the documents are signed, sealed and delivered and then I'm gonna make Mike from TN XW look tame compared the batchitt crazy I am gonna unleash upon him if doesn't stop f'ing with my kids..... gggrrrrrrr! To date he has drove wrecklessly with the kids in the car twice due to anger issues... documented quietly, and this is documented quietly... I'll build a nice little file and once our deal is signed by a judge, I can be back in control.
Not to forget to mention that the boat he is going to live aboard doesn't have enough room for the kids to stay on for more than a day or two at a time.
Tick Tock hurry up clock!
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M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
You're welcome to come here... it's 15 with a wind chill of around 5. Brrrr!
Me: 50; Wife: 48 Gay; civil union in NJ no kids M: 15 years, together 17 Bomb (OW) 2/09 (EA 3mos/PA 3mos) ILYBINILWY W out of house, w/OW, in separation talks, nothing filed
No... Arwen.. you should come here...that's too cold!
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too
