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Mandyloo, I agree with Forward, don't get in the middle, you have done all you could, he's not going to change and he doesn't want to change.

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I do not fully agree w/BH. I think the more you can back out of the R w/S and X, the better.

But look, he has made some attempts to move forward w/S. Let it be and see what happens.


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I hear you guys and thank you for your replies, I am out of steam with ex at the moment, I will leave him and son alone and stop playing middle man, I only tried it to try and help the sitch between them, it seems ex is not interested, so be it x

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ML, He is probably ashamed. I can see it in my X's face.

Let it be and see what happens.


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WISHING ALL MY DIVORCEBUSTING FRIENDS A VERY MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A FANTASTIC NEW YEAR, MAY LOVE PEACE AND HAPPINESS BE WITH EACH AND EVERYONE OF YOU, TAKE CARE XXXXXX

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Same for you, ML. We all are dealing with difficult situations so taking care of ourselves during this time is paramount!


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Mandy .... Merry Christmas and an Awesome New Year to you too. I hope your son and XH will find a way to connect more meaningfully in the new year, and that you continue to be happy and find even more joy.


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Hi mandyloo,
I wish you a Merry Christmas and a very Happy New Year. Take care.

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thanks peeps for your christmas wishes, tis all quiet here havent heard or seen ex neither as son, dont know wot his plans are on seeing son over the festive period havent been advised on any, his loss, we will have a fantastic time with the family that means so much to us, Have yourselves a fantastic time everyone xxxxxxx

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Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year to ya, Mandy!


Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed.
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EA4/04 End? Who knows?
"Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
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