Y'all are right about Coach ~ he's amazing. Glad I got that straight before it was too late
I'm happy for both of you that you did figure it out.
And best of luck on being Retrouvaille counselors; may you bring help and healing to many more people.
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
And my heartfelt thanks to a man who selflessly gave so much of himself and who (unlike me!) says the best and the most and with an enviable economy of words.
You've enriched lives.
All the best,
Gardener
"My soul, be satisfied with flowers, With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them In the one garden you may call your own." Cyrano deBergerac
Well, I waited a whole night (patient me!) before posting the obvious. This must be a test!
So, I'd guess we gotta apply DB principles. We'll detach, GAL, go dark, in lovingly NC, but appreciative and validating, maybe even do a Gucci and start "seeing" other vets here. Sooner or later, Coach will be curious and start popping by again. And if not, we'll all be stronger persons and emerge better anyway. We'll handle it.
Tongue planted FIRMLY in cheek.
Me 42 W 39 Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992 First Bomb: Sep 2007 Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007 Kids: D10, S5 Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak. 3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.
Haven't 'spoke' with you, but have read many of your posts. Thank you for the wisdom & insight. All the best for you [and everybody on the board] in '10.
M & H: 40 M: 5.5 T: 7.5 OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09 Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10
