So you can't think of ANYTHING to do so you will do nothing? Awesome. I am so glad you are my goal buddy 'cause that is damn inspiring.
Go see a play, foreign film, look in the paper and find an open mic night somewhere, browse a hobby shop until SOMETHING catches your eye, hit the library then find a coffee house you have never been to and plant your ass and read your rad book.
Kevin you didn't post anything last night so I am assuming you were out GALing! Hope it was fun whatever you did.
COWBOYS BABY! 8 more hours!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
I went to a meetup group last night with some friends. We had a good time.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
The PMA is good. I am looking forward to watching the Cowboys play tonight. Not sure if I will sit at home to watch the game or go out somewhere to watch the game.
But either way... game on.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Looks like I am going to a friend's house to watch the game tonight. It should be fun.
Got mass tomorrow, then gonna get some studying in, and then meeting FaithfulH, Fightin4MyWife and Jon2911 for dinner tomorrow night.
Kevin
Me 36, W 37 M: 08/02/97 D13, D9 1st Bomb 02/08 Reconciled 04/08 2nd Bomb: 09/08 W filed for D 02/04/09 Separated 03/09 D dismissed 06/09/09 Still separated...
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!
I would like to offer you an update as to where I am on my goal list. In turn, I would like have an update from you.
In the past 10 days I have accomplished the following from my "to do" list:
Registered for school (I start on the 19th of this month)
Let H know I decided to file my 2009 taxes without him
Filed taxes
Adjusted my business plan to accommodate my schooling. Accept that weekly adjustments will need to be made to accommodate coursework while still earning enough to sustain my expenses.
Adjusted savings plan and budget to reflect decreased income due to school
Renewed passport and scheduled all appts for the next year (medical, labs, testing, C'ing and dental)
E-mailed H and let him know if all portions of the Agreement he is responsible for initiating are not complete by Jan. 30th I will take further legal action which he will be billed for. 2.5 months is ample time and the tasks he has not yet completed would take him less than a day.
I also requested he give me three firm dates and I will select one that works for me so he can get the remainder of his stuff out of here.
CG, you're not divorced? Did you file married separate? I might still do that for '08, '09 choice coming up also. Taxes are so much fun in our sitches.
Me: 30 W: 28 T 8, M 6 S: 7-27-2007 W filed (again) 3-2011 Served 8-2011 Responded, now dark "I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK
I am legally separated. You only have to be legally married (and legally separated is still legally married) for one calender day per year to file jointly. But you can file "married separate" if you so choose. Just be sure you inform your spouse of your intentions before you do so she knows how to file!
You don't have to be legally separated to file "married separate" but it usually comes with a penalty if you do file that way. My H is the one that will incur more penalties than me and if I include his income on my financial aid applications I will not qualify for aid. So I am doing what is best for me!
