Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
sorry to hear about s18, I will say some prayers too.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
D18 crisis is a bit better now. H may not be as forgiving as I, but I can't blame him. We'll see how this shakes out.
The week started out good w/the phone conversation, the good mood follow-up, etc... and now this.
Hey, I've still got my f'n TEA! But, hey, I'm down 3 lbs! Probably water weight, but, works for me! It's funny. You take all of this stuff, and it makes you want to stay away from eating junk. Expensive, but worth it so far!
Headaches, though. Ugh! Detox headache and Stress headache!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
oh, did I mention bowels?? you want to be doing that as much as possible to get the toxins out 2-3 times a day preferably. your headache should at least be gone after a few days though.
glad to hear d18 is doing better! oops I had called her s18 earlier.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
St - figured that out! LoL. (Bowels) Headache is better.
Update:
I'm w/S12 @ a kicking camp today all day. We had to travel three hours to get here, therefore leave @ 5:30am! Ugh, (This camp is totally cool. 4 NFL punters/kickers, 4 BIG TEN kickers punters, and only 40 kids allowed.).
The cell phone has not been hidden under the mattress the past two nights. He just took off his clothes @ the end of the bed, and left it in there. This is fine w/me, since I could grab it if I wanted to while he's asleep.
We had a good day w/the boys yesterday. S10 had his first bball game. He had the first foul, ended w/four, and had four of the ten points. He was worth the price of admission. I have not laughed that hard in a long time.
We had a nice lunch out, and went to a pro soccer game later. The pro games are fun because the boys' club has an entire section. H and I enjoy the parents.
Not much news on D18. They are moved in. We will see how she does. H is NOT happy w/her (nor am I), but he's still calling her by the nickname he calls her when asking about her. So, this too shall pass, as long as I stay out of their way!
G. I posted a reply to you, and lost it. Ill try in a bit again. Interesting description of W, considering its the same person who so confidently drove you to such anger a little while ago. HUGS
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
glad to hear about the cell, it shows he's trying to respect your feelings.
and glad your headache is better! I ended up not lasting more than 6 days. I wasn't hungry, but got tired of drinking the same thing, and james came home, so I get lazy when that happens!
the game sounds like it was fun!! ours too!
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
I'm trying to take some time away from here. I have some catching up on life to do. I'll still peek in, and say a quick hello, but I just really need to get my head out of this stuff, and back into my life.
Thanks!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
I'm trying to take some time away from here. I have some catching up on life to do. I'll still peek in, and say a quick hello, but I just really need to get my head out of this stuff, and back into my life.
Thanks!
Thats good mindfull. As you grow stronger the less you will rely upon us. Soon you will get to a point where your telling your story. Not asking us to help work on the chapters.
{{HUGS}}
Stay strong.
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