WAW and the law of attraction

[FormelyknownasF]

OK, with the above said. You are right. Stealth and not raising any suspicion is very important right now. STICK TO THIS.

The key here is that when you pull the rug out from under her feet it must hit her like a ton of bricks. That means, the day prior or on the day you expose to her you do this all at once. You send her into a complete tailspin.

1) Cut off all her lines of communication you can (WITHOUT NOTICE)

2) Move your funds from the joint account into a personal one where she has no access.

3) Change the account your paycheck goes into.

Hold off on the exposure to OMW for a day or two.

This has to be a timed sequence of events.

I really liked that plan. Wait, you mean I do that BEFORE I expose to my W or to OM W? Confused now. I thought OM W was a priority. We haven't even discussed how I should expose to my wife.

But I just found already changed the paycheck of her new job not to go into join account. She's still paying for stuff like phone cards off the joint account.

[Greek]

Frac ~
Post a message to OMW on FB and give her YOUR mobile number with the message that you have important info about her H that you must share with her. Ask her to call you! She'll be more likely to do that than to give you her number.
Greek

[FormelyknownasF]

Ok, so not much happening today so I'm staying productive and posting another part of my plan.

I really can't figure out how I'm going to get her cellphone or home number. It's REALLY tough to find it anywhere. So the more and more I wonder if the bomb could be dropped via email? It also makes it so much easier for her to see the evidence as it's already attached.

Anyway, I wrote a draft (obviously it's not gong to be in english so pls bear with my grammar)


Hi XXXX

You don't know me but my name is Fracesc.

I'm XXXX's husband. Does that name ring a bell?
We've been married 4 years and we live in XXXX.

Ok, thing is, your husband XXX is an old friend of
hers and they both have been touch on facebook
as of last year.

Unfortunately, XXXX, I hate to be the carrier of bad news
but you deserve to know the truth.

Last month XXXX when she was alone, visiting your hometown,
my W and your H started having an affair.

I'm sorry that you have to read this from me.

It's also ok if you don't believe me.

In the beginning I was in denial too. I used to caught her telling
lies saying she was going to be with X friend when she wasn't and
she wouldn't stop getting TXT messages from your H on her mobile.

Maybe I was a bit suspicious but in the end I'd say,
they're just very good friends and let it pass.

It wasn't until I armed myself with courage and started monitoring
my wife's emails that my fears were confirmed.

Emails, chatroom transcripts, flowers that your H sent to my wife pretending
to be from a girlfriend of hers, etc

it was tough but it was better than living in a lie.

I don't expect you to believe me. Yo have every right to stand behind
your spouse. I did the same for mine until I saw the evidence I'm
sharing with you today.

I'm not going to lie to you, it's tough reading through those messages.
But you need to be really strong and read this because HE WILL TRY
TO DENY EVERYTHING.

That's why it's crucial that you read the evidence. There are many things,
facts, names, that will give you strong clues about this documents authenticity.
Look at every detail and be convinced.

You have to be strong XXX. Ask him which jacket is he planning to send my wife with her friend XXX in a few days? Ask him why in one of their chats my wife says she was wearing his shirt at one point?

Remember that after all THIS is the man who is promising my wife to leave you and your two children to come and pursue here in XXX. He's already planning a visit, ask him about this.

Without doubt this the hardest email I've written in my life but I still think that
we both deserve better than lies.

After all, the truth is the only way to move forward.

F

[FormelyknownasF]

Frac ~
Post a message to OMW on FB and give her YOUR mobile number with the message that you have important info about her H that you must share with her. Ask her to call you! She'll be more likely to do that than to give you her number.
Greek

I live in a different country and continent. She won't be calling me, would she?
Or maybe she would? Interesting proposition.

[Greek]

Frac,
If I got that message, I would make that call in a NY minute.
Greek

[FormelyknownasF]

I like that approach man. Really, really considering it.
Let me tell you that my only hiccup is that she's not a very active FB user.
I think she only had used it once this month. So it might be too late when
she get the message.

Again, her sister seems very active but not too sure if its a good idea to involve her.

But again, I really bet she'd call. OM says his life at home has been a living hell lately (midlife crisis, he's 50+) so that might be enough to spur her on.

But then: how you show the evidence on the phone? you ask her for her email?

I'd use my real name, right?

[Greek]

You will not know until you try. This might be The Day she checks FB. I don't know about involving the sister. It isn't totally out of the question. You could FB message the sister something like "I need to get in touch with (OMW's name). Would you please ask her to check her FB acct? Thx." That way you're alerting OMW to the message w/o spilling the beans all over the place.
Greek

[Greek]

Yes, use your real name. YOU have nothing to hide.
Greek

[FormelyknownasF]

Good call. I definitely will be doing that when the plan is all set to go.
Thanks so much. Great suggestion.

What do you think about my little speech? Too direct? Too long?
Will she be able to take it?

How does my tone of voice needs to be?
Apologetic? Serious? Sensible? Reassuring?
I need not scare her off. She's going t be my partner in this.

Oh and she'll [censored] hate my wife's guts thats for sure, right?
But she'll empathize with me.

[FormelyknownasF]

You have to be strong XXX. Ask him which jacket is he planning to send my wife with her friend XXX in a few days? Ask him why in one of their chats my wife says she was wearing his shirt at one point? Why is she sending my wife emails with mp3 songs with titles as "The perfection of your body"?

Remember that after all THIS is the man who is promising my wife to leave you and your two children to come and pursue here in XXX. He's already planning a visit, ask him about this.

Without doubt this the hardest email I've written in my life but I still think that
we both deserve better than lies.

After all, the truth is the only way to move forward.

F

Little ammend.