Dropped the kids off this morning and spoke to W about a few things the kids have been doing -fun stuff. I also informed her about sending them to their room for misbehaving.
I was strong, confident and upbeat swith my tone of voice.
She does tell me that her IC gave her a Parenting Counsler's number for us to discuss Co-Parenting. She just mentioned it but didn't say anything else about it.
I feel her IC is giving the typical therapy of making her feel better right now-and dwelling on the past. I thought that when she decided to go to IC things would improve, but it seems like IC is putting thoughts in her head of moving on.
I'm not going to let that comment bring me down. In the past I would have. I have been working too hard in things to let a comment bring me down.
No meeting yet to discuss the Post-marital agreement, but I know it will come sooner or later. It took her 3.5 weeks just to send me the email with the info.
Any thoughts anyone?
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Hi, you asked if I would stop by. Was there anything particular? I was looking at your other threads. Man, you have bounced all over this board. Maybe it would be easier if you stayed in one place. Folks visit out of their neighborhood all the time.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
I have been sticking to this tread for awhile now.
I was wondering what your thoughts are on the post-marital agreement.
Is this the beginning of the end?
I have come a long way since I first joined this board. I have learned to let go and not let W's actions consume me.
Even though she wants to have this agreement in place, it has not discouraged me in my efforts.
Whats your POV? Thanks
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I received an email from W regarding us meeting to tal kabout the agreement.
She added in her email stating she knows to house needs a new roof and she is willing to pay for half.
What's this all about???
I am not trying to read into it but it sounds weird for her to offer that wihthout keeping ties.
Anyone have thought about this??
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It seems to me that it is the first step in moving towards D. Once the contract is in place, all she has to do is tell the mediator to file and it's done.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
W did say she thinks to have an agreement in place "In case things don't work out"
Why say something like this?
If she wanted to be divorced then it could be done right away.
Bomb 8/09. Brief piecing 12/10. D-2/12 Two incredible kids D9,S6 Leading new life! “Success is not to be pursued; it is to be attracted by the person we become."
