After you drop your exposure bomb pitch up at her place unannounced. Say, "I'm here to pick up the rest of my stuff" and keep quiet. Go in, get your stuff and get out..
I hear you, the fact is, I'd might need a copy of HER pay slips. I won't be able to get away with that at that point. I'd imagine then I need to ask the lawyers to get me another option.
Last edited by Fracesc; 03/24/1005:57 PM.
Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *
Hold on time to ponder about dithering, give me a minute.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
Evidence ready Phone/Broadband cancellation order ready Timing is perfect I'm ready.
I know I've been going back and forth on things but that plan is FINAL. I'm rolling with that period.
The last question didn't have to do with the plan ITSELF, had to do with a request from the lawyers who are taking care of my new visa. They ask, is there a way you could get those papers from your wife? I thought of it and posted my thoughts here. Asked if it was worth breaking the NO CONTACT rule to get my visa secured.
The answer seems to be NO, DONT BREAK IT. So be it.
I can assure you, the plan is on. Not taking a single step back.
Separated: March 1 * Affair discovered: 20-March * Exposed: 27 March * Def. separation: May 1st *
Francesc- are you in risk management? work for NASA?
I am at the edge of my seat..I'll be pulling for you. Everything will go fine..maybe not according to plan..but fine.
When I dropped the bomb on H bosses..I got a completely different response than what I expected. I thought my H was going to be crazed...he was actually embarressed and ashamed. He deflated like a balloon. Try to limit your expectations...your W if human..you cannot control the way she is going to react..just remain confident afterwards...no apologies...stay strong.
